AITF drama cus why tf not **

what the fuck happened on aitf/raft? a new go got appointed then the others bounced and left jennius as the only go. what kind of shitty move was that? was that the whole point of their shitty ReVoLuTiOn? make as big of a fuckin mess as possible then bail?

all the shit they pulled, all the shit they talked about making aitf/raft a better board, all the people they attacked and alienated (coughcough nashcoughcough), and to just end up leaving and deleting their shit.

i hope aitf/raft-ers that are also bhbers see this shit and realize that "revolutions" just dont work.

thats 3 previously big and very active boards that are now ruined and dead after ridiculous revolutions.

RIP bhb, dt, aitf/raft

ps: the recently gone aitf/raft gos hissy fit group s.a.s.s. has also been abandoned. seriously wtf'ing over here lolololol

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i bet 20 internet dollars that the ann elliot poster is kimera. who the fuck uses "eventuate", like as an actual verb in the real world? people that want to sound smart and educated. to me it sounds like some tenn. trailer trash that saw the word in one of those trashy erotic novels and thought it sounded fancy.

and both mother and daughter using that snobby ass word? naw lol poor kimera must be bored. shes burning thru her old alts real quick.

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the more old threads i read, the easiest it becomes to spot kimeras fake drama posts, its like she barely tries to hide it. like now im 100% sure loveablelindsay is kimera, the biggest clue was how salty she was when asked to put a trigger warning on her post and did so super passive-aggressively, in all caps.

o, and kimeras fake drama posts always seem to contain a sexual assault in the period that the op is actively posting, so she can soak in the emotional responses from other posters.

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so now that infinite scroll is gone i took a peek at the oldest threads on aitf and whoa! lol what a shit show. i didnt know about yentush throwing a tantrum and implying the whole world was anti semitic cus no one posted about some israeli teenagers being killed. and from the comments on that thread, throwing a tantrum and apologizing when called out was something yentush did quite often.

i also saw that back in august kimera edited a bunch of her old comments to delete shit she said.

and now i see that tableflipper was right to try and stop the tragedy porn trolls. ive read so many super graphic accounts of rape and sexual assault on old threads. and its just disgusting how that shit was allowed and even encouraged just to get more people to join aitf.

which kind of reminds me of mspoe or whatever, the one with the "sultry" affair (tho im not sure how an awkward, sloppy, drunken fuck with a stranger in a trashy motel can be considered sultry). same kind of ridiculous, graphic, sexual stories, written in the most purpliest of purple prose. at least the new gos had enough sense to shut that ridiculous shit down.

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 its hilarious how the aitfers gaslight themselves and each other about how the ellen thing happened. no, ellen wasnt a troll or a con, she was just a desperately frustrated woman that wanted out of a marriage that had become monotonous and boring for her.

her husband was in terrible pain, on the verge of having a surgery that is like the last of the last resorts to at least try to alleviate his pain. he was not this horrible abusive man like aitf wanted ellen to believe. some posters even told ellen that he was faking his back issues and pain until ellen told them that she herself had seen the xrays, the issues were real.

then, aitf made ellen believe that he was a dangerous man, he could be plotting all sorts of horrible things with his mother, he would escalate and become violent if she tried to separate amicably, call the hotline, get a lawyer, get out, hell try to kill you, call 911, just leave! and why were aitfers so sure of this? well cus many years before ellens H (then BF) had kicked at her dog after he tripped on it. no, he didnt kick the dog, he kicked at the dog, never touched him.

and why did ellen, a supposedly intelligent woman, believed all this crap and left her husband as he was laying unconcious in the OR as doctors fiddled with his spine? well cus she wanted to believe it. ellen was bored. she was a party girl, marriage was like being chained and imprisoned, she needed to get out. but she didnt want to just leave, she had to convince herself that her H was a horrible man so she could leave, and here was aitf, telling her exactly what she wanted to hear so she could justify leaving her husband and feel no guilt.

the shitshow that followed was just fuckin epic, and exactly the kind of drama-filled escape post people on aitf like to dream about.

less than a week after leaving, ellen was feeling single and ready to mingle lol. she made a profile on a dating site (🚩#1) tinder, i think, and the most level-headed posters thankfully told her to delete it, she needed to concentrate on her situation. ellen very grudgingly deleted it (or said she did). she whined every day how horrible it was at the shelter (🚩#2 that everyone ignored. if her H had truly been a monster, ellen wouldve been happy to be at the shelter cus she was at last free of him.) she whined about having no privacy, about being bored, about her children being too much, etc. she whined that she had no space, no money, nothing to do, nowhere to go.

im not sure what exactly happened after, since there was some sort of freak out and her fist two threads were deleted and she moved to a private group. but from bits and pieces ive seen mentioned, it seems ellen got a lawyer, decided to have her dog put down, and then drove with the body in the trunk of her car cus she didnt have money to have it cremated(🚩#3 soft beg). some people decided to send her money to help with that. i think she also gave her Hs number and/or address to some aitfers so they could harrass him. o, and she admitted that she had lied about the letter (🚩#4). a letter her husband had supposedly sent her either soon before or after she posted her first thread, where he was kind of an ass. well, it turned out that her H had sent her that letter a few years or months before, when they were going thru a rough time in their marriage and he had had a bad reaction to pain meds for his back.

im not sure what the catalist was for the breakdown of the whole thing, the PG and all, but i think it was when she left her kids with her brother (who allegedly sexually abused her when they were kids) to go do god knows what (probably hook up with some rando). in the end, ellen went back to her H after he threatened legal action against her for the harrassment he received.

so, in short, the ellen shitshow was a perfect storm or a former party girl bursting to escape the chains of marriage, but feeling too much guilt, encountering the echo chamber, drama hungry bored housewives of aitf, and a GO (kimera) desperate to have the most popular board on BBC (or, at least, more popular than dwil, lol)

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 bhb has been pretty boring lately, except for a couple of threads here and there, but drama on the all in the family board is starting to ramp up again.

 after kimera and susan and the other one were removed as GOs everyone there thought the board was headed in a new, better direction. in reality, theyve just changed one form of thought policing to another.

new_aunt targeted babynash cus she didnt do a good enough job of policing the racist chatter on her thread, so new_aunt went and replied to one of nashs comments on an older thread and nash had her account poofed a few days later. new_aunt got pissy when she was called out for targeting nash and said she hadnt meant to make nash leave. except that A LOT of comments on that thread hadnt aged well, and new_aunt couldve made a general comment instead of a targeted reply to babynash.

yesterday was yoshiboos turn. and it apparently started on the vaccine thread, when in reality new_aunt has probably been waiting for yoshi to update again so she could throw "mesopoor" back in her face. cus apparently policing threads is now the OPs job, instead of, you know, the people who actually volunteer to police threads, and have the nice green letters that say Group Owner next to their sn. and the fact that kimera and the others didnt do anything about the racist undertones of the "mesopoor" nickname is in no way yoshis fault, but new_aunt is still on her little power trip and will blame anyone and everyone except the people who are actually responsible for how aitf was (and still is, tbh).

and the banning of side chatter is another example of thought policing. basically, theyre worried that side chatter will lead to discussion of hurtful topics, which just translates as topics the new GOs dont want to see.

and the changing of the name is fuckin annoying. they expect a bunch of stupid millenials to be acquainted with old ass tv shows that nobody even talks about or fuckin remembers.

oh, and the most laughable thing. back when the old gos were ousted, the new ones said they wanted to make aitf a "safe space" for people to talk about their  family and in-law problems, but instead its become a minefield, where ops will be held accountable for topics discussed on their threads, knowing very well that telling people not to comment, or how/when to comment is a vio.

it was also fuckin hilarious how loribee couldnt resist a last salty shot at yoshi with her "have it your way" comment as she closed yoshis thread.