first, thank you kind reader for pointing this bitch out. ive seen her around lately, but didnt immediately connect her to the shit show in may. i did check her blog and yep, she totally told a black woman to be nicer when speaking out about racism. i think it was alysse that told her to fuck off tho, not gabrelle. that thread is gone now i think.
anyhoo, saw her today and whoa!
did she really just say "misandry"? doesnt surprise me she said those gross things back in may. if she thinks misandry is a thing, she thinks reverse racism is real too.
i once saw someone (dont remember who) on bhb say oppressors cannot become victims of the systems they created and continue to uphold, meaning reverse racism cannot exist. the same is true for misandry. men simply do not become victims of their own sexist construct, it just cannot happen. the same exact way white people cannot be victims of racism. it just cannot happen.
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yo, you know whats even more disturbing about alysse playing devils advocate? shes a social worker. shes supposed to be on the victims sides, not defending their abusers.
seeing her now and with other crap shes said, it really paints a picture, doesnt it?
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sweet jesus, someone please tell alysse to shut the fuck up already!
why the fuck is she caping so hard for a rich white couple of assholes with no morals or compassion that obviously raised an abuser and murderer? fuckin disgusting.
and is she so fuckin dumb that shes never heard of circumstancial evidence. cases have been built purely on circumstantial evidence, and won.
regardless, bbc is not a court of law. people are fuckin allowed to make crazy assumptions if they wish, it has zero bearing on a real life case.
and also wtf with aolz? i wonder if it hurts to have alysses hand up her ass pulling the strings lol
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gotta preface this with a eeeewwww cus eeww, seriously.
on the radiology tech banging her boss to get better hours alysse got fuckin gross.
why is she always so interested in others peoples sex lives? and who they fuck and why and how and when? shit is gross and i dont use that word lightly here. op was wrong, her boss was wrong, the clinic was right to terminate both of them, they deserved it, but alysse was just yuck.
and shes done this a lot. she refers to interracial marriages as white women falling on black penis (gross cus she spends way too much time thinking about other peoples sex lives). also notice how she never refers to interracial relationships as black men falling into white vagina.
i really hate the way she minimizes and invalidates interracial relationships to just sex, like black and white men and women could never really love or fall in love with each other and want to marry. nope, its all about sex.
maybe if alysse gets a sex life of her own she would stop being so concerned with other peoples sex lives.
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this comment on the little girl being injured at prek or daycare or whatever rubbed me the wrong way for some reason.
so just cus other people cant parent their little crotch dumplings and teach them not to be little bully assholes, op and her kid have to adjust (re:take) the abuse? wtf? im betting this bitch is the parent getting all the calls and emails and shit from the daycare that her little brat hits kicks bites other kids and she just waves it off cus kids are kids.
"little jaxxon didnt mean it, hes just iMpUlSiVe!!111!"
"little paighslee didnt mean to punch that other kid in the head, shes just self centered and short sighted!!!11!"
bitch please.
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i found by accident a gem of a thread. two months after laurie was called out for being a racist bully, it seems people couldnt remember laurie ever being a bitch lol
lol mamablack mentioned lauries "strong voice" at the beggining of that shitty thread. its funny cus the only thing laurie used her voice for was to bully, belittle, berate, mock and generally shit on people.
lololololol this was more than hilarious. all of these bitches were all over the racism and revolution threads back in may but still somehow missed laurie being called out? not only that, but they had never seen laurie be a cunt to anyone! lolololololol
there was almost immediate push back from a few posters and someone mentioned selective amnesia. this is exactly what this is. laurie was a belittling cunt, theres no question about that, but all a sudden no one remembers it? bitches please.
and heres the thing ive noticed. everyone remembers neenee being a homophobic bitch, anyone that uses the r word to refer to SN kids or kids with autism has also been remembered and run off, but a white bitch misgendering a black woman or making fun of a hispanic womans grammar is no big deal a few weeks later. this has happened so many times with so many posters. the only cause that bhbers truly stand behind is lgbtq+ and kids with autism or similar special needs. racists are given the benefit of the doubt, second chances, forgiven. i hope the black posters remember this. bhb is a white board. most people there will act outraged for a minute then revert back to indifference once the spotlight has been moved to some white trans kid being bullied or some white kid with autism being left out.
and i truly believe neenee was baited and goaded into saying most of the things she said. im not saying it was okay of neenee, but she never started threads to say how gay people were wrong or some other stupid crap like that. neenee, a black woman, was baited by a bunch of white women cus they didnt like that she was rich and wasnt afraid to show it.
and it worked cus neenee ended up banned and the white women responsible are still patting themselves on the back for it.
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lol talk about a drama stirring bitch.
if this bitch ever says she doesnt like drama i hope someone will post this ss. why the fuck would this twat comment this on aolz thread except to stir shit and cause drama?
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its sure been a peaceful day or so without alysses hysterical raging.
i also noticed that sometime after the "revolution" diane passive-aggressively removed trues quote from her siggy. poor diane must have been so butthurt when all her "friends" turned on her, or their backs. even so the words racism is wrong and im against it never ever left dianes mouth. i find it fascinating that diane can be so staunchly racist she cant even fake wokeness lol
at least shes still got her little pg on bbc, dianeland. that group still seems to be quite active.
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who do we think button humped alysses thread? my guess is alysse herself, poker faced and ruthie. now they dont have to face the shitty thing they did. tho i imagine theyre hoping aolz will start a thread so they can goad her into multiple vios and get her banned.
i do hope aolz is smarter than that. its better to stay aolz, make them uncomfortable every time they see your name.
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so aolz shows her face and the previously very vocal posters are silent. how convinient theyre all so busy at the same time lol
my guess is theyre thinking really hard on a response that doesnt sound super cunty now that theyre being called out for bullying a person with autism. or theyll ignore it until it goes away.
yo bitches! theres nothing wrong with admitting you were wrong. theres nothing wrong with admitting you got caught up and carried away "troll hunting" and piled on aolz cus you dont like her. you might lose a few interwebz mean girl points but you might gain a bit of humanity.
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cool. acknowledge they all lie or fudge details to preserve anonimity but still bash aolz for ..... the same thing.
and all that bipoc were run off bullshit lioness was on about? yeah no. gabrelle herself said she left, she wasnt run off. and if i remember correctly some of the people that left back in may did so cus they feared they were next to be called out for being racists or were called out for defending a racist. the poc that left said they didnt want to help bbc make more money with their clicks so they left voluntarily, not run off. tho i suspect they were embarrassed at being so easily fooled by the molly troll, who was probably not black or even female.
in the end aolz was run off cus she was disliked. there was nothing "wrong" with her, per say, just a different personality.
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so this is the post from 2018 that started the aolz call out and pile on, which, btw, alysse continued in a sarcastic little post (more on it later)
the post is from 2018 but since aolz closed it a couple months ago thats the date that shows. anyhoo, aolz mentions "ODS" hating candy corn. the anon that called her out pointed out that aolz only had one daughter in 2018, so who is the son? aolz said she was pregnant at the time with a boy that she sadly lost, and thats the the son she is referring to cus the candy made her nauseous. but then, why mention shes on the fence about the candy if it makes her sick?
now, i can see a autocorrect situation. but i can also see that it would be weird to call a baby "older dear son" when hes the youngest and only boy.
work yesterday was super busy so i missed the call out thread but from what ive been reading today it seems like after the anon or whoever posted "receipts" some other people suddenly decided that aolz was a lying liar who took up too much space on race threads (LOL!) and deserved to be called out. i dont see the connection tho cus lying about how many kids youve got is not the same as taking space on race threads, one deserves dragging, the other does not, especially since aolz never asked for anything like money or other donations.
anyhoo, aolz closed a bunch of her threads and said she wouldnt be back.
today, alysse started a nasty little thread with a picture of candy corn and well, people thought that was the funniest shit ever.
these two bitches are just ugh. they are fuckin gross, laughing at what happened. it feels like theyre dancing on a grave, just fuckin gross.
i did gain quite a bit of respect for gabrelle. she called out alysse for the nasty thread.
alysse tried to play innocent and said she was asking a legit question but obviously gabrelle is not stupid. and like i said before, i was not a big fan of aolz, i just cannot deal with overly needy whiny people, but she was harmless, she did not deserve the call out and pile on and she certainly did not deserve this nasty, sarcastic thread alysse started.
one of the worst people on that thread, besides alysse, was ruth.
that doesnt really prove anything. if aolz is a whiny negative nancy irl of course people will avoid her, that doesnt mean shes a troll.
this one is just funny. hey, ruth, wouldnt it have been better to hone that amazing sixth sense to spot selfish douchebags? that way you couldve avoided marrying that asshole youre with and refuse to leave.
also, it seems ruthie here has been spending an awful lot of time reading and posting on a certain blogs comment section lol. i just finished reading there myself (400+ comments!) and i think ruth makes quite the case for her hate of aolz. gives me a pretty good idea of who spideysensetingles is.
moving on lol.
lioness came in with this crap comment and it shows the hipocrisy and double standards.
what the fuck is this bitch talking about? cus i remember atlantamolly getting a shit ton of "benefit of the doubt" even after bbc banned her. there was such an uproar that bbc had to tell the truth, that molly was a long time troll that had taken on several personas thru the years, different races, genders, and family dynamics. and it was a big deal bbc doing this. they usually ban trolls with zero explanation. and even after this, people were saying that bbc was probably lying to get an "outspoken black woman" off their backs, that molly couldnt possibly be a troll, no lol bbc was lying.
not to mention alysse gets aaallll the benefit of the doubt even when shes claiming outlandish scenarios like the racist neighbor, the racist drs office assistant, and the racist walgreens worker, etc etc.
to finish this up, lets summarize.
aolz gets called out by a brand new anon account, bhb bitches see a chance to get a few shots in cus they dislike aolz. aolz closes her threads and bounces.
again, the call out and pile on happened cus an anon started it. an anon started a call out of a long time harmless member and everyone just piled on. cus the brand new sept 2021 anon said to and they believed it.
does anyone get this shit? does anyone understand how this shit happened? help me make sense of this shit show. i dont know if its the late hour or not enough caffeine in my system, but i cannot even begin to articulate how ridiculous i find this whole thing. bhb is usually so wary of new accounts, but this time they chose to take the anon at its word and took down a long time harmless poster cus the brand new september 2021 account told them to. cus honestly the notion that aolz was a long con troll is shaky at best, but bhbers ran with it this time.
ill be wtf ing over this all week. for realz.
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i wonder how that financewannabe bitch can breathe with her nose stuck up so far alysses ass lol. shes got to be alysses alt cus that embarrassing pick me attitude is too much to be real.
still, really good strategy to become accepted by the new rising cunt pack. suck up to the most obnoxious bitch and hope no one noticed your little missteps, like comparing parenting a child with dog sitting. or the fact that you have zero children but still give out parenting advice.
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wow one unexpectedly busy day at work, which im still trying to get thru btw, and aolz gets called out. shes closing her posts and will probably gray out soon.
i dont know what happened but from what i gather shes been lying about a bunch of things. allegedly. i dont really like aolz, always thought she was an over eager follower, always parroting whatever the wokest twat on bhb was saying, but still mostly harmless. i did notice that she also seemed to suffer whatever condition was the cause du jour on bhb. someone said tone deaf? shes offended cus her husband is deaf. someone says crazy psycho bitch? shes offended cus she has poor mental health. someone tells her shes wrong? well shes got autism, lifing is hard for her lol.
idk. theres so many other people on bhb that are outright assholes that it seems a little extra to go after someone that at best is a whiny attention whore, at worst a lying whiny attention whore lol.
now im really wondering who spideysensestingle really is. laurie, mmk or ernest is my guess, if it isnt some other angry bitch playing woke on bhb. lolololol oops! that does not help narrow it down at all lol
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nothing unites bhbers like hating on someone that calls them out on their bullshit.
interestingly islammiemommie didnt call anyone islamophobic or xenophobic or racist cus they called her comments crap and laughed at her point of view. alysse should take notes on that.
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moneytownhunnie has got to be gabrelle. that pithy "i dont care what yall do" is a dead giveaway. lol sure comments a lot on other peoples lives for someone that doesnt care, doesnt give a shit, doesnt give a rats ass, etc lol
also why is alysse so certain that shes called aggresive cus shes black? petty used to be called aggresive, bully, crazy bitch, angry, bitter, victim, etc and petty is white.
maybe people call you those things cus you are, you paranoid twat.
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can alysse get anymore obnoxious? fuck! no matter what anyone says she just has to find a point to argue.
also what a fuckin liar. didnt she say she works and takes care of her kid all by herself? then what the fuck is this shit?
so shes a working single mother that does everything by herself, but she also got a village and some guy helping her out? which is it?
then of course, she just has to play the fuckin victim again cus people are ignoring her ranting.
still dont get what shes raving on about. are people not allowed to have conversations if she feels attacked or left out or ignored? lolol what a fuckin snowflake.
lol what? nope. most of the posters that left were white cus they felt attacked when racists started being called out, which is quite funny when you realize a lot of the white posters that left were swearing up and down that they were not racist and were allies and woke and shit.
anyhoo, alysse continued this way for a while, playing the victim cus rysma dared to continue a conversation with posters alysse feels are racist. which is also kind of hilarious cus schist was actually agreeing with alysse that sahm arent doing a real job.
this is why alysse gets on my fuckin nerves. "speak up for me!!11! nooo!!! youre speaking over me shut up!!!11211!" lolololol
i wish alysse would get this thru her head. disagreeing with her opinions, arguing a point with her, or simply ignoring her crazy unhinged ass is not being racist. its avoiding an endless argument cus shes better than everyone, works harder than everyone, knows more that everyone and if you cant awknowledge that youre a racist that wants her dead. someone give her a medal or something, that oughtta shut her up for a few days.
lol "i eat racist bitches, im betty bad ass, i dont need you!" "why didnt you baaaack meeeee uuuuup!!" bitch cant make any fuckin sense. no matter what anyone does shes always the victim and everyone else is wrong. seriously. back in the day i knew someone that escaped a modern day lynching and he didnt whine half as much as this dumb cunt.
anyhoo bitch didnt even notice that rysma gave her what she wanted since yesterday.
there. thats all alysse ever wants. sooo much validation for getting pregnant by a useless asshole and having to do all parenting by herself but not really cus shes got a village lolol
anyhoo, there was also this stupid bitch.
omg we get it you love all stages of parenting cus your kids are angels and youre fuckin perfect and sweat rosewater, piss wine and shit skittles.
as always there were some posters that tried to inject some fuckin common sense into the discussion, like what does it matter who feels that they work the hardest, let people feel their feels and shut the fuck up about it.
giantpumpkinkitty had i think the best point in this shit show.
this is exactly it. when a system tricks you into believing that the only work worth doing is one that generates an income, its easier to exploit you.
moms that choose to stay home with their kids are doing a very important job, and its hard as fuck cus theyre not delegating a single moment of mental, emotional or physical labor to nannies or sitters. sahm do a very hard job that i have enough sense to recognize its not something i could do 24/7.
sahp deserve respect and appreciation, working parents deserve respect and appreciation, it doesnt have to be the mommy olympics every single thread.
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i wonder which brand spanking new account being sNaRkY bitch on the rainbow classroom thread is the bugg, mamayaya03 or spideysensestingling? both are equally obnoxious and self righteous twats. so probably both lolol
on a more serious note, that op is a bigoted moron. bet she wouldnt say shit if the book had been about a girl liking race cars and baseball.
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oh, alysse. shes so good at centering herself on threads that are zero about her then acting the victim and calling people racist cus they call her out on her bullshit.
every single time, no matter what a thread is about shes got to tell everyone how being a single mom is soooo haaaarrrrddd but dont worry shes so awsome at it, she works 20 hours a day and still has time for everything.
what the fuck does it mean shes never been away from her daughter for too long? how does she say this shit and then say she works 16 hour days? was her kid with her at work? shit dont make any sense.
how the fuck can she say she works full time but has time for laundry and naps while working? she might be on-call full time, but shes sure as fuck not working full time.
failing to acknowledge her own privilege is also not a good look. she had the opportunity to go to school and get a degree so she can have a good paying job with very flexible hours. many other people dont have that. many other people have no choice but to work retail or fast food or some other service job working shitty hours for min wage.
oh but thats right. shes black, she has no privilege. im sure she had to shoulder her way thru kkk rallies to attend her college classes lolol.
see how great she is! 16 hours a day and still had time to do everything!! wow, superwoman right there lolol
except no one implied or even came close to implying that sahps parent more than working parents. as for her last question, well, parent obviously. youre a parent even at work, but youre not parenting at work. unless she starts claiming some sort of telepathic ability lol
so true. sahp are working all the time for zero pay. and it is fuckin hard work. i did it for a few years and almost burned out by year 3. i nearly cried with happiness the first time i went back to work after my kids were old enough to go to prek.spokenfortruth speaks the truth here lol. everybodys situation is different, what works for some families doesnt work for others. but nope, according to alysse everybodys got to follow her working parent model or theyre lazy fuckers that watch soaps and eat bonbons all day.
what the fuck is she even talking about? shes coming accross as a bootstraps type of asshole, "i do it, why cant everyone else do it too?"i dont get why shes so defensive about this. some time ago i saw her getting super defensive at "dead beat mom". i think she is projecting her own insecurities and taking out her fails on others so she doesnt have to face the fact that maybe shes not doing as great as she thinks she is. it seems like shes got a stick up her ass about happily married people, sahms, happy kids, etc. i mean there are a lot of single moms on bhb, like a lot, and not one of them made such a fuss about this shit.
here, someone give this to alysse before she cries lolololol
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just for future reference, this is the most fucked up thing ive ever seen anyone say on bhb, right up there with laurie telling truffulatrees it was her own fault she was a victim of sexual abuse and harrassment cus of the company she kept.
i dont care if that op was a meddling mom trying to keep her married son still attached to her tit, this "joke" is fuckin awful. she tried to backpeddle and added her stupid little apology but the damage was done. how much more of an insensitive twat can you be? and this is the person that runs the supposedly "safe space" new hole.
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on some thread or other i saw this bitch kissing up to newseattlemum for some reason. i just laughed and laughed. for funsies i looked at newseattles history and after the first five pages i gave up trying to find a single supportive or nice comment that wasnt directed at well known poster.
that walking cringe momatoella joined in the fun lol. i have never seen her not kissing up to the biggest bullies on bhb.

















































I fucking missed you ❤
ReplyDeleteDamn is it my birthday? Welcome back
ReplyDeletelol thank you kind readers! i wasnt planning on doing this so soon but i peeked into bhb and saw alysse being an insufferable bitch and thought why not? lol
ReplyDeleteHer ass will be exposed next. I know she is lying, she almost got caught last week. Soon gals, soon. Her candy corn thread is the topper. Though I did enjoy Gabrielle calling her out. None of the snow whites were gonna do it, that's for damn sure.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I lmao at her relationship advice, which she has plenty of on m&r. She has been single most of her life, and she wouldn't know a serious relationship of it slapped her in the face. I'd do the exact opposite of whatever she advises. Can you imagine dating her?
god i hope so. she is so nasty and bitter.
ReplyDeletei did admire gabrelle for calling alysse out. it probably wasnt easy.
and no, i would rather cover myself in honey and sit my ass down on a fire ant hill than date alysse. much less painful.
I cant wait for alysse to go down in flames. She's such a judgemental bitch. She's a bitch about EVERYTHING. It's interesting how posters like Laurie were called out and left for being a bitch but alysse does it constantly but because she's black its not ok to call her on any of it. She automatically jumps to it being about race when it's not. A bitch is a bitch no matter what color. Running off aolz was completely unnecessary and mean. Also, I'm really surprised that no one called alysse out for her statements in a thread about addiction a couple months ago. Alysse pretty much said that all addicts are bad and dangerous and there is no middle ground. She scoffed when someone said that it was a real medical condition and addiction could happen to anyone. She flat out said that addiction could never happen to her because she was better than that. I thought her whole stance was bullshit and really harmful.
ReplyDeleteAlysse is the fucking worst! But you can't say anything bc she starts in with her bullshit. "My blackness triggers you!" "You're trying to silence me bc I'm black!" No bitch, people are pushing back against you bc you're a fucking cunt.
DeleteI'm going to start reporting her profile every time she derails a thread with her stupid bullshit.
1. I disagree with my depiction
ReplyDelete2. Interesting to see someone's take on online drama
3. The internet is fucking weird
I don't think you are her, you writing styles are too different. I do think you should be careful who you align with there. She wont be in your corner when you need her. Believe that.
Deletelol if youre really financewanabee
Delete1- i looked thru a few of alysses threads and youre always there agreeing with whatever she says no matter how fuckin crazy or downright mean it is.
2- i guess. entertaining for sure.
3- yep!
Since I'm already into the Internet Drama Inception, I guess I stay for a while despite knowing better...
DeleteI remember two main where we interracted:
1) the stay at home mom
2) aloz call out + the candy corn pic
In the first, I don't even know how I got involved in the side argument with Alysse but all I said was that I didn't think anyone was persecuting anyone and that I though the reason someone singled her out is because she was more person than other people. Later on, I strongly disagreed with a poster who said Alysse at made them feel ashamed of being black and I still stand by that opinion because it comes from self-hate and racist. I did have several back and forth with Alysse and another black poster on the subject because it's at the core of my identity and when I get a chance to talk about it with other black women I take it because it'd rare in my otherwise very white upbringing and current landscape. Besides that, yes I expressed the following opinion
1. One can't unilaterally decide to be or continue to be a stay at home parent
2. Once kids start school a stay at home parent has more hours freeing up in their day which could be used for a part-time job if they wanted one
3. I was unsure whether being a stay at home parent could be called a job. I still don't really have an opinion one way of the other but I still disagree that saying it's a job because being a nanny is a job is a good or sufficient argument in favor of it being a job.
About the second thread(s):
1) I had a short exchange with a poster about internet drama because they always dumbfound / engross me (same with you, given you started a whole blog just about internet drama)
2) I told Alysse I was the one black person loving peeps
3) I asked why people, including Alysse, cared so much about a poster lying about their life and said that at some point they become the bully
Is there something I'm missing?
For one, I'm black, and we dont throw around our blackness like that. If someone is on some bs, absolutely will call that out. She using her blackness as a pass to do and say whatever tf she wants. That's not how we roll. Its obvious most of the rest of us black posters don't like her, we just dont call her out publicly. Its gonna come to a point that one of us will, because she's doing too much. Pp is right, sometimes a bitch is a bitch, nothing to do with race.
ReplyDeletegabrelle/moneytownhunnie already started. and i agree that only black women calling her out on her shittiness will stop her. everyone else will just be called racist and the other white women will dogpile on, desperate for approval and praise on their wokeness.
DeleteI'm guessing that the author of this blog is Aolz because the only person who gives Aolz so much attention and sympathy is...... AOLZ. Another theory here that gabelle is an alter ego of aolz or the other way round because this post was classic aolz attention hoeing
Deleteaww feeling left out? give me your sn and ill dig up some shit on you, make a whole new post all about you.
DeletePoor you Aolz. I would not put you thru the horror of sharing attention k? What are we outraged by today? Howz the whole world unfair to you boo?
DeleteAlyssa is faker than Rachel dolezals fake tan. Why so much hate for newseattlemum? She is one of the nicer posters. Poker face is easily findable on the webz and boring AF. Mantistoboggon is right up with Laurie and Becca in the cunt club.
ReplyDeletenewseattlemum is a classist know-it-all ass kissing bitch. the only people shes ever nIcE at is the populars.
Deletemeh about poker faced. totally agree about mantis.
as for alysse, i have a feeling she is exactly who she seems to be. which is actually scary af.
I'm Black on BBC and trust me, us black girls see Alysse. She is an idiot and fake as fuck. She needs to poof before someone gets fed up enough and doxxes her dumbass.
ReplyDeleteGirl, I'm telling you. It's like she is trying to get dragged publicly. Ain't nobody in her real life putting up with all that bs she does. Ain't no way.
DeleteWhat is this "certain blog" with 400 comments that was referenced?
ReplyDeletebhb-dirt.blogspot.com
Deletefull of ox box confessions. that blogger hasnt had an open box (lol) in a couple months, but its still worth a good read from the beginning.
Aolz is a whiney twat, Laurie is a nasty shitty bullying cunt and alysse is probably a racist white bitch that gets off on people hating a "black" woman
ReplyDeleteTo be fair there were a few posters that said laurie was a shit person. After that they all fell in line fake apologizing because they can't be against the grain
ReplyDeleteDickheads
Laurie trolled a crapload too there's very few pure ppl on the board
DeleteI recently started reading this blog, I knew about it but I avoided it because everyone said it was just garbage and lies. I left BBC a few weeks ago and decided to take a look.
ReplyDeleteI used to really like Laurie, like really really like her. Seeing her crappy behavior all together in one place is eye opening. All the things that I previously just thought of as Laurie-isms are really just shitty things she said for laughs or out of her own misguided biases.
What I also see now is she's a horrible mysogynist. She only has a problem with "misgendering" if anyone used ladies, women, girls, she, her, etc. She absolutely hated any talk about periods, breastfeeding, mothering.
I can't believe I didn't see it all before. I really thought Laurie was great, a great ally and vocal advocate for the LGBTQI+ community. But now I see she was only pushing her own narrow views on people.
I was one of the people that hugged Laurie's victim-blaming comment to Truffulatrees. I didn't really see how awful that post was because as people like to say, I had my head pretty far up Laurie's ass. I regret it now. I regret ever supporting Laurie by silently hugging her posts or taking the time to type something to defend her/back her up or even just laughing at the same people she laughed at.
I won't share my SN but I hope that the people I hurt by supporting Laurie know how sorry I am for hurting you too. I was blinded by my own desire to fit in, I didn't see how awful most popular women on BHB are, and how much hurt I was causing.
I hope BHB really implodes soon. There's so much toxicity there. I wish people would take a step back from the board and get some perspective.
Where are all the (for lack of a better term) "populars" hanging out these days? I miss so many of them. I'm not in the new backdoor hole, or whatever tf it is. Is that still a thing? Is there a new actual hole? BHB is sooo boring and I need somewhere new to read and be entertained.
ReplyDeletelol dont know dont care. the "populars" were a bunch of cunts and they finally fucked off. theres a new squad forming already, with alysse and her sycophants at the helm.
Deletebut if youre that bored try reddit, i hear its a bunch of fun lol
I dont know why seeing that bitch from m&r all over bhb annoys me. She thinks shes so wise about everything cuz shes poly. One of my favorite moments of the bhb revolution was when she came on one of the many racism threads and tried to be all woke but was shut down *hard* and gabrelle told her to fuck off. It was glorious.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I took a look at the stupid blog shes got linked in her siggie and oh boy! was that interesting LOL. She posted about getting told to fuck off and even then tried to tell gabrelle (not directly obviously) that she should of been nicer, that telling people to fuck off is not helping her cause.
Im not kidding. If anyone doesnt believe me just click on the caramiatish link on the siggie and scroll down until you see a post called What I Should Have Said and What I Learned Instead.
Someone please make Alyssa007 STFU on that Gabby P. thread. OMG, if anyone had any doubts she was a troll, that thread will never make you doubt it again.
ReplyDeleteWhat "gross" things did Shirley say? Ive never seen her be nasty to anyone, just honest. I think your gross for accusing people with no proof.
ReplyDeletelol well aside from telling victims of dv its their fault theyre abused cus there choosing to stay, she said her "european" kid honored his indigenous ancestors by tanning in the summer.
ReplyDeleteiirc, she also tried to "help" black women by recomending makeup brands that offer darker shades. that one was hilarious. as if black women had been lost and here comes the white lady hero to tell them which brands they should buy.
i dont venture into m&r often, but when i do i see her giving out either super condescending little nuggets of wIsDoM or victim blaming abused women.
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