some people on the ideal weight thread are stupid. its cool to refer to being thin as looking "sick" or like a "skeleton person". but if i were to post something like "when i was overweight i looked like a pig" can yall imagine the fuckin outrage?
hipocrites.
also, "unhealthy"? lol what do you 10,000 calories a day people think you look like? cus you sure as fuck dont look like a picture of health.
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sigh .... i really dont get bhb sometimes. just when i think i have them all figured out a thread like the keeping first grader safe happens and instead of people having compassion for sn kids all everyoen talks about is how their kids are impacted by the uncontrollable meltdowns of sn kids.
i also cant believe this poster said this shit and five people hugged it and no one said shit.
"our normal children" ?? wtf? kristianajane, shiplauncher, ellie123456, rabbyt1 and stillthew0rst agree with that type of language. gross.
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awww poor planes hates that ops can delete their own threads. upset cus you dont get to bully and harrass people to your hearts content? die mad about it.
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the stealthing thread got fuckin gross.
so rape victims "let" themselves be raped? abuse victims "let" themselves be abused? this is just so fuckin wrong. what is even more disgusting is that karen is getting a pass cus shes popular and funny. when starlahazelnut said pretty much the same thing she was rightfully dragged but karen can say this shit and barely a slap on the wrist. hipocrisy and double standards.
now this, i kind of agree with.
and this poster is getting dragged more forcefully than karen cus fairly new and unknown. and yes, i agree with this. women should not put their safety and their health in the hands of men. it would be like a mouse trusting the cat to take care of it. men are the perpetrators of 99.9% of rapes, why would we trust a man, especially some rando we just met for kinky sex, not to do some heinous shit like this?
and the stupid twat that said op shouldnt be on birth control if she doesnt want to? 100 years ago women fought to give us all access to birth control, they were arrested and beaten, went to jail, endured all sorts of horrible things to give us all the right to access birth control, but sure, let the men decide to be a decent fuckin human being, men who, btw, were (and still are) the ones doing the beatings and making laws to make it impossible for all women to access appropriate health care.
now let me make this clear: stealthing, abuse and rape are never the victims fault, ever. but we have to be smart and proactive about our own health and safety and not leave it up to the people who are the ones commiting the rapes and abuse.
also, i dont know why the whole dom/sub, ovulation chart, poor housekeepers crap reminds me of 50 shades. just saying.
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just for documentation purposes lol next time lilheathen is yelling at someone about their privilege, remind her of this.
so shes rich, can hire people to clean for her, can afford child care which is fuckin expensive, btw, but sure, the problem with sahm is theyre whiny and lazy.
why is there always this vibe on bhb that if youre a sahm youre fucked? they always say sah moms do a lot, their work has value, sah is hard, blahblahblah, but as soon as a sahm says the same exact fuckin thing then all the woh moms come out and deride them.
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omg! the injured husband spin off is fuckin hilarious at the end. literally lmao when thistledo/schisthappens/geographymum "called out" starlahazelnut for her past shitty posts. isnt thistle the one that said racism doesnt exist cus shes never seen it in her country? which, btw, i highly doubt cus shes in scotland, a majority white country with a xenophobic culture.
https://community.babycenter.com/post/a77905108/dh-er
also lookig at you yesanotherjennifer, didnt you call a stepfather grooming and abusing his stepdaughter an "affair", as if the girl had a choice? yeah.
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bbc now allows members to delete their own threads! so if any one has a thread that went sideways for whatever reason and youd rather it just disappeared you can go ahead and delete it. it works even if the thread was closed.
Didn’t we know this? From the last update?
ReplyDeleteYeah, hasn't this been a thing for a while now? Or maybe it was that OPs could close their own threads but now they can delete too? Idk.
DeleteNo, I think it's pretty recent. After the big update a couple of years ago OPs could close their threads but they still had to ask mods to delete them. BBC just gave people more power over their info. And saved themselves valuable (read: expensive) server space. Just imagine the hundreds of drama threads that are going to disappear in the next few days, not to mention the ones that will disappear every day as shitty OPs take their ball and go home.
DeleteOhhhhh. Thanks for clarifying without snark lol. I do really appreciate that.
DeleteWell that sucks.
Gonna be harder to screen shot those receipts now 😂
ReplyDeletePoor Ruthie! She's never going to take Alysse down now. She'll just lurk with an impotent seething rage, lmao.
ReplyDelete😂 I am sure her phone is loaded with the old screenshots already. Sure she may not have any room to save pictures of her family or any positive experiences in the real world, but she will be ready when her time finally comes to take Alysse down! And then no one will fucking care because it is a fucking chat board.
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DeleteOh lord. Ehoneybee getting a dog she knows nothing about 🥴 Can’t wait.
ReplyDeleteThe more I read the more I think it's going to be a disaster.
DeleteCan’t wait for the next thread “adoption place lied about dog”
DeleteOh no it's the peta police telling people there's only one way to adopt and care for animals and be self important!
DeleteI was just perusing the bhb reddit sub and dang, there are so many people I had completely forgotten about. I wonder what happened to everyone. I wish there had been a new hole after becca closed her site. I'm not counting that stupid backdoor site or whatever the hell that was. Is that one even still active?
ReplyDeleteAll the old populars must have somewhere to hang out. My guess is FB private group. Reddit and Bbc are too public, a lot of them hated discord, and most of them were FB and IG friends already.
DeleteAs for Mantis' backdoor, who knows? I seem to remembrr there was some drama in there too with Mxnoncongeniality, newseattlemum, and others, so it's probably not active anymore.
I guess CrankynHungry deleted her thread.
ReplyDeleteShe’s deleting a lot of her posts and comments right now
DeleteWhy? Which threads of hers were problematic?
DeletePeople were seeing the details in her stories changing
DeleteHoly shit YesAnotherJennifer shut the fuck up already!
ReplyDeleteWhat is the sub Reddit? And who’s there?
ReplyDeleter/thenewbhb
DeleteIt's not active anymore though.
Rolling my eyes so fucking hard at brit1022. She is making extra sure her older kid will grow up to be an entitled asshole who demands everyone's attention all the time. This is exactly how you raise super special snowflakes who throw tantrums when someone else is sick or having something special in their lives like a birthday. But hey, keep giving her attention she doesn't need or deserve.
ReplyDeleteShe needs to watch the “Pass the Parcel” episode of Bluey 😂😂
DeleteDoes she have another thread besides the one about her nicu baby? Cause if not, do you think *any* type of doting on your kid is snowflaking? Do you yourself relegate it to bdays and xmas only? Cut her some slack, she's postpartum and her baby is in the nicu. And try to make your kids feel special more than 2x a year, it's good for their self-esteem.
DeleteShe just had emergency cesarean, her preemie baby is in the NICU, why the hell does she need to make her 9 year old feel special? Nah bro. You gotta teach kids that when someone else is sick/hurt or has a special event it's not about them.
DeleteI vaguely recall labtech getting into it with some other posters about race or gender. Does anyone know what I'm talking about?
ReplyDeleteHmmm that stealth rape post is giving me deja vu. Sounds real similar to the post where starlahazelnut said she wouln't have let that happen to her.
ReplyDeleteGawdKaren just did the same fucking thing on that thread the dumbass
DeleteHope she's getting her ass handed to her.
DeleteKaren's sort of popular so she's not getting the dragging she deserves. But it's not surprising she'd make that comment. Some of the moms on bhb are raising future Brock Turners, judging by past comments, and she's one of them. Enthusiastic consent, what's that?
DeleteSort of a wanna-be popular more like it! A couple people called her out but she deserves worse.
DeleteWow biggerfish, you're being so gentle with karen, when on starla's apology thread you were like a dog with a bone. So blaming a victim of rape is ok when it's a friend of yours?
DeleteStarla's thread is the gift that keeps on giving. Ruth said she was getting second hand enbarrassment from her. Ruth "all your heroes will fall" Rendell! 🤣
DeleteI'm with Karen. OP was dumb to send dude her ovulation calendar (seriously wtf) and to blindly trust this dude to be responsible. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
DeleteYou must be one of those bhbers who doesn't have friends and can't understand why. Here's a hint. When someone is a victim of a crime and is looking for support, you don't respond with "here's how you could've avoided that". It's called *empathy*. OP now knows she shouldn't have trusted that guy. So telling her what she did wrong is pointless. It doesn't undo her rape. It's being cruel for cruelty's sake.
DeleteBiggerfish wasn’t nice to Starla on her apology thread. She wasn’t being nice to Karen either. Don’t lie on people just because you don’t like them.
DeleteFirst if all, I don't dislike biggerfish, I recognized the screenname but she's never stood out to me, she's one if the posters whose just there.
DeleteSecondly, her comment: "I'm struggling a bit with this Karen".
How is that not nice? How is that in any way comparable to what she said to starla?
If you're familiar with couples counseling, that right there is an "I statement". You don't use "you statements" bc the other party feels attacked, "I" is a way to disagree *nicely*.
I think you’re reading why more into her comment than anyone else. That’s what I think. Not everyone has to be a raging bitch all of the time when disagreeing with someone. If she was giving Karen special treatment, she would have stayed silent.
DeleteAnyone reading the p/a husband thread? The last 5 or so pages are fucking ridiculous. All these women bragging they make good money working and have awesome family time, they supposedly "have it all" but then they're the ones complaining they have to do it all at home bc their husbands suck and their kids are lazy, and their work is so demanding and stressful. And then they have the fucking audacity to tell sahm to stop martyring themselves LOL
ReplyDeleteWhy does GooteyBootey’s siggy say “she/they”? You’re either a she or a they. Which is it dumbass.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand it either, but I don't get the anger people have for pronouns and how people identify themselves. How does it affect you?
DeleteIt’s not either she or they. That’s literally what nonbinary means. Dumbass.
DeletePeople that put that shit in their siggies are just looking for attention. "If no one notices me, then I'm not speshul".
DeleteAgain, why does it matter? Are you ok?
DeleteIt doesn't matter but I'm allowed to be annoyed and have opinions, same as everyone else.
DeleteOk so how can someone be a “she” but also say they are a “they”????? MAKES NO FUCKING SENSE.
DeleteIt's not supposed to make sense. It's the only way for white people to yell about being oppressed when you can't read their minds to find out their pReFeRrEd pRoNoUnS.
Delete^^^ 😂😂
DeleteGlad to see Starla go. That pile on in her apology thread was deserved.
ReplyDeleteThis blog has become The Hole.
ReplyDeleteAnd? If you have a problem with this blog then why are you here, reading along?
Delete""This blog has become The Hole.""
Deleteoh? i havent seen posters here gather to discuss strategies to better bully people, brigade for one another when someone calls out the bullying, then high five each other when a poster "flames out" re: stops taking the bullying and fights back.
Oh don’t act like any of you are better, lol. This is the only place now where people are talking shit about posters on BHB. So it’s like the hole. Not that hard to figure that out.
DeleteOnly place 🤣 Nah there are others
DeleteWhere are these other places that are open to anyone?
DeleteI’m here because the hole is not.
DeleteThey’re out there but not open to everyone. Ya gotta be in the mean girl clique apparently LOL ask Planes
DeleteWell you sound Hangry
DeleteNo, just stating the obvious.
DeleteExcept anonymous so not at al the same
ReplyDeleteThese new made up words are so dumb. Your either a male or female. Theres no in between. Androgynous has existed for yearsss.
ReplyDeleteBut that’s hard to spell. Non-binary is easier 😂😂
DeleteThe way some of y’all talk to each other online is really disturbing. Push and prod and poke and insult. In real life you wouldn’t act like this I can guarantee it. Stop bullying online.
ReplyDeleteIt's misdirected anger. We can thank the lazy husbands and in-laws they're too chicken shit to stand up to for that.
DeleteIf you can't handle being online, then DON'T BE ONLINE. JFC is it really that hard?! I don't get all you dumb bitches whining about this shit on a fucking dirt blog. Click the little x, log off, and go read a book. Fuck.
DeleteFucking yikes. So which one is it for you? Husband, in laws, or both?
DeleteOh no, people are mean on the internet! I think I'll cry about it!
DeleteGrow up.
I'm surprised the PeNiS dOes NoT eQuAl PrEdaTor!!!! crowd isn't piling on karen and azgirl for being so wary of men. Funny thing is Karen is part of that crowd, so her comment is suspect. Maybe she just likes being a bitch?
ReplyDelete4 people told Karen she was out of line. What else do you want people to do? I am sure she will be reminded of her comment for years to come. No not everyone likes Karen. Pay attention better.
ReplyDeleteThey don't like her but they don't dare speak out against her. "Pay attention better"? Look at the hug counts for the ones who spoke out against her. How's that for paying attention?
DeleteI'm not saying grab your pitchforks. I'm saying acknowledge the hypocrisy.
DeleteHug counts mean shit. BHB is so predictable and exhausting really. No one fucking cares anymore.
DeleteBHB is always “sex = babies!! If you don’t want babies you need bc!!” Then Karen says she should be on bc and everyone’s ready to torch her I don’t follow
Deletelol it doesnt matter if 20 people tell karen shes disgusting. its still pretty tame for what others have gotten for less disgusting comments. it is hipocritical as fuck and it is cus shes liked by the right people.
Delete""pay attention better?"" lmao i am paying attention. in 2 days max that thread will die out and no one will remember what karen said. then karen will make some kind of whiny struggle post, someone will bring up her disgusting comment and her friends will jump up and tell whoever that its shitty to bring that up now dont you see poor karen is struggling?? its happened with other popular posters before. their shit gets conviniantly "forgotten".
I’m sure some people will bring it up to her again. Then some won’t harass her for it. Usually when someone gets dragged in a thread they leave on their own or comment back and make it worse and then leave. Posters that choose to stick around, can’t do much about.
DeleteBhb may not want to admit it but Shelsi's right. People don't change that drastically for no reason. And no, I don't believe men are master manipulators who act like good men until one day the masks come off. There are ALWAYS red flags, there are *always* signs, little comments he made that you ignored. But you can't admit that on bhb, you can't say you dismissed the signs bc you didn't want to be alone or bc you wanted kids. Because instead of helping, bhb will pull a Gawdkaren and blame you for your situation.
ReplyDeletei wish i could pin posts cus this one just spot on.
DeleteIn a case of a long marriage, and the person flips, possible with mental illness. Or the victim spouse came from a bad childhood and has messed up normal meter. It can take time for some people to realize they are in an abusive relationship. It is a shock to them. She also could be hiding it too so she doesn’t get hurtful things said to her.
DeleteDid I read that correctly? Maggiesm0m was cool with a 12 year old pissing the bed every night? Wtf? The sanctimommy totes cool with that level of nastyness? Hell must be freezing over.
ReplyDeleteNo you didn’t read that correctly
DeleteSome kids piss in bed until 12yo. They nor their parents can control it. They have to grow out of it just as she stated her child did. Ignorant comment.
DeleteYeah you read that right and eeewwwww!
DeleteA 12yo still pissing the bed is fucking gross. 12 is old enough to maybe have their period, can you imagine that disgusting mess? Puke! That shit is not normal I don't care what anyone says. Unless the kid has special needs it's fucking gross.
But she’s a special unicorn! Her mommy said so!
DeleteY’all are fucking stupid. Who tf makes fun of a 12 yo wetting the bed? It’s a medical condition and it’s often genetic. Shut the fuck up. Pieces of shit. I am not even a huge fan of Maggie’smom, but God damn. Trash human beings.
DeleteBedwetting at that age can also be trauma related, I hope for MM's daughter's sake that wasn't the reason.
DeleteMy only issue with karen is how she's always saying this or that wouldn't fly in her marriage, all sorts of things are her "hill to die on" as if she didn't spend like 3 days in the hospital during her last pregnancy, by herself bc her husband was a dick. Like she's got all these opinions on other people's relationships and suggests separation and divorce for some things that could be talked out and resolved with better communication, but her husband abandoning her at the hospital, bleeding and scared while pregnant, is okay.
ReplyDeleteMaybe she should keep her trap shut when it comes to strong, healthy relationships bc she sure as hell isn't in one.
Is it lost on everyone that a few weeks ago someone brought up a SN child being abusive in class, I believe the example was hair pulling, and everyone just kinda shrugged and said the child being victimized should learn to stand up for themselves.
ReplyDeleteNow we have this 1st grade post about this very thing a few weeks later come up as an advice post? And in the thread a commenter said they are dealing with the same thing and didn't know how or when to bring it up.
Is the hair pulling comparable to throwing heavy objects at kids heads and 7 people being injured so far by this child?? I don’t remember the thread you’re talking about, but this violent SN child seems a lot worse.
DeleteIt wasn't even hair pulling, it was hair *touching*. That's not violent, it's just annoying. That's why the snowflake parent was told to teach her kid to toughen up.
DeleteI find it so bizarre that there's all these kids in the US that hit other kids and teachers and throw things in the classroom. In all my years at school as a student myself, and then as an elementary teacher, I've never seen or heard of a single kid being this out of control and violent.
ReplyDeleteIs this more of a cultural thing? Or more like a US thing?
Lmfao at Aimee aka VioletSky being the newest to post “warnings” on OTHER ppls threads 😹 shit is rich!
ReplyDeleteShould have said it under your sn, BiggerFish taking all the credit seconds later 😎
DeleteYes I’m here all day, what of it!
Would not be surprised if biggerfishtofry wrote that here too haha
DeleteOf course Cinder and Planes are defending 9 year olds playing violent video games. Fucking disgusting. Per usual no one says shit. And then here comes good ol ass kissing LabTech echoing what they say in a desperate attempt to be part of the cool kids. And people wonder why our society is so fucking fucked. IDIOTS
ReplyDeleteWhy don't you say something then? Be the change you want to see in the world :)
DeleteHow is not wanting your 9 YEAR OLD to play GTA because of the violence and you, an adult watching Dahmer hypocritical? Make it make sense.
Delete"How is not wanting your 9 YEAR OLD to play GTA because of the violence and you, an adult watching Dahmer hypocritical? Make it make sense."
DeleteBecause you, the adult, are consuming real life violence and death at the same time you're condemning a child being allowed to consume make believe violence and death.
I definitely judge letting a child play any GTA game but I also don't watch true crime stuff. Most victims are dead, let them rest, stop dragging their names back up for your greedy consumption and entertainment.
Can someone refresh my memory- who was the poster that threw the ham? I can't remember and it's driving me crazy!
ReplyDeleteStillTotallyAnon
DeleteThat's it! Thank you! Wonder if she's still around.
DeleteMonstera is really pissing me off, who the fuck was she before?
ReplyDeleteWhy??
DeleteHer post is gross but I can't quite put my finger on why. Maybe the toxic positivity. Maybe bragging on how great and compassionate her kids are (which I doubt). Maybe her "dumb blonde I'm just so ditzy!" and at the same time supplicant attitude.
DeleteBut maybe, she's just a twat.
Not sure who she was before, but I agree with the last post. I can’t stand the “teehee, I had no idea!” fakeness
DeleteUnpopular opinion: Joe Jonas is ugly as fuck.
ReplyDeleteThat is all.
He is. But the whole nerdy, disheveled, trash wannabe look is totally in these days. Hence BHB. 😂
DeleteBut nick jonas is hot
DeleteIf you like elf ears.
DeleteOh great a weight chart post! Apparently if you are in a normal weight range you look “unhealthy” “like a skeleton person” or “sick”.
ReplyDeleteFrom xPlanes: "BMI is racist and not an accurate predictor of health, muscle, for bed [?] level or body composition, and should be put to rest."
DeleteLmao just say you have a fat ass and you are a science denier so you'll continue cramming in 5000 calories a day and fuck doctors for "fat shaming" you. More honest and to the point.
Plane’s comment doesn’t warrant anyone discussing her body or her calorie intake. JFC.
DeleteWhy hasn’t anyone figured it out yet that CatPronie is a troll. Almost all of her posts are on the line of controversial or emotionally exhausting.
ReplyDeletebased on her weight post and pictures, i think its mytimeznow latest sn. she was also obssessed with how "overweight" she was cus she needed to lose like 10 lbs.
Deletewhoever it is she needs a fuckin hobby.
She is a phony. U dont have 6 kids with a stomach like that. Its possible but rare. Regardless, you dont post a fit stomach and talk about flap over your pants and being over weight. Lol Ive seen a few trolls like her thru the years and thats what they do. Mostly on BB. Mytimeznow started out on other slower boards before BHB. Count down for her next thread and everyone turns on her…
DeleteY’all are dumb. People don’t carry weight the same way, so yeah, someone who looks normal at 150 will look skeletal at 100. Get a grip.
ReplyDelete“Normal” looking people are often overweight depending on where you are. The number one cause of death is heart disease. Is that a “normal” cause of death as well?
DeleteThe US has gotten so fat in general that people have become used to seeing it and when they see someone who’s a healthy weight they think they’re emaciated.
DeleteWe could all eat the same diet but we would still all have different bodies. For many different reasons. Talking shit on skinny people is like talking shit on white people. Mean? Sure. But you are not oppressed. You have the ideal, socially acceptable body type. It is not the same at all. Maybe you just need to examine why you hate fat people so much.
ReplyDeleteso dont comment on peoples bodies applies only if the bodies are obese? nah man. body shaming works both ways. fat people have it tough, sure, but you cant just shame skinny people to make fat people feel better. how about you dont comment on mine and i wont comment on yours?
DeleteThat’s rich coming from someone who has called multiple posters fat for no other reason than to insult them on multiple occasions. So silly.
DeleteSo you get your panties in a twist over people “thin shaming”, but don’t bat an eye over people commenting here on specific posters being fat/obese/etc? Classy.
Delete""So you get your panties in a twist over people “thin shaming”, but don’t bat an eye over people commenting here on specific posters being fat/obese/etc? Classy.""
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and ive never fuckin called anyone fat. what i said was that they were a bunch of fuckin hipocrites cus science is god except when science tells them smoking, drinking and being obese is bad for you.
I’ve never seen YOU say anything about someone being fat, but you certainly take no issue with others saying those nasty things about specific posters in the comments here. It’s great that you’ll remove most of the hate speech, but when people comment on fat bodies on here you let it stand proud.
Delete"I’ve never seen YOU say anything about someone being fat, but you certainly take no issue with others saying those nasty things about specific posters in the comments here."
DeleteDude, blogger literally got shit on for deleting a fat shaming comment on another post. Damned if she does, damned if she don't.
Calling someone fat is not hate speech jesus christ. Facts aren't hate. Obese is a medical term.
DeleteNo one said calling someone fat was hate speech. Reading comprehension is your friend.
DeleteWhere's the reading comprehension fail?
Delete"It’s great that you’ll remove most of the hate speech, but when people comment on fat bodies on here you let it stand proud."
Are you not able to infer that fat comments are equal or are comparable to hate speech in this sentence? Is your reading comprehension limited to exact language or have you advanced to inferences yet? Cause I have a 5th grader that can help you with that.
If a fat person is referred to as fat, that’s a fact. Facts are not hate speech.
DeleteThere was that whole time where everyone was pissed prevprev didn't shower enough because she's fat?
DeleteIf she’s not showering enough I’d say it’s not because she’s fat, it’s because she’s lazy.
DeleteOmfg. BurnTheLaundry saying people will take offense to a vampire costume with vampire teeth because “some people believe vampires are a real thing” 🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteI CANNOT.
lololol ☠️☠️☠️
DeletePeople also believe the earth is flat. Probs the same people who think vampires are real 🤣
DeleteLmfao! That’s good, like people who think they’re Lestat or vlad the im paler reincarnated? Hate I missed it
DeleteMamainmaine needs to leave Emilysmom (y’know, THE ONE WITH CANCER) alone.
ReplyDeleteShe said “Cancer is an indiscriminate bitch and does not care your weight, diet, or exercise levels.” and that is an absolute falsity.
Of course we all know thin healthy ppl who got cancer too but she’s wrong, and let emilysmom feel her feelings.
Holy crap. Obesity is associated with a ton of comorbidities and a bunch of cancers. 1/3 smokers die from a smoking-related illness. Why would she be a bitch to a sweet OG poster who’s battling cancer? What a clueless jerk
DeleteYuck that’s like smokers claiming people who never smoked can get lung cancer too or people who chose not to get vaccinated for covid who are on their deathbed saying “I’ve heard of people who died who got vaccinated too!” Idiots trying to justify their poor choices
DeleteA mother of four thinks it is totally normal and fine for gums to bleed from being brushed. And not go to the dentist for years.
ReplyDeleteAnd none of them floss!!!! Who has teeth that don’t touch AT ALL until 8 years old?!?!
DeleteUnfortunately a lot of people. Mostly low income but doesn’t Medicaid cover that shit??
DeleteI've met plenty of people on Medicaid and they know to take care of their teeth. Bleeding isn't normal. That's just BHB being disgusting about hygiene again.
DeleteUmmmmm this potty training thread. OP has lost her snowflake marbles somewhere.
ReplyDeleteIf you have kids, you need to knock off the obese =/= unhealthy bullshit. You are modeling shitty eating habits to your kids and that is NEGLECT. Do better.
ReplyDeleteNot everyone that is obese is because of their eating habits.
DeleteIt’s neglect to feed your kids now? Lol you have got to stop just throwing words around.
DeleteIt’s neglect to provide them with/let them eat garbage for all meals.
DeleteThose 90s Maury episodes with the obese kids eating two entire large pizzas, drinking soda, candy, imprinted on me. Their parents were just like “well little Timmy wants to eat it so we let him”. I hope those kids learned boundaries and cut their parents off. That’s child abuse!
Delete"Not everyone that is obese blah blah blah"
DeleteIt is RARE for it to be due to literally anything else, but bad diets/lack of exercise. So fucking stop with the "not all" bs. If it doesn't apply, let it fly. The rest of them need to face facts.
"Is it neglect to feed your kids now?"
DeleteOf course! Of course you need to reframe what I wrote to make yourself feel better. It is neglect to model unhealthy eating habits to them. It is neglect not to teach them how to take care of their bodies by eating well. It's our job as parents to teach our kids to wash their hands so they won't get sick and to teach them to brush their teeth so they stay healthy. But we're not obligated to teach them how to eat well and we're not obligated to model that for them? What's the rationale for that?
Ding ding ding! Exactly! If you don’t think something is wrong for encouraging unhealthy habits, then you and/or your kids probably have unhealthy habits and you don’t want to admit it.
DeleteA friend of mine has a daughter who is obese, She’s 8!!!!! She’s 110 lbs. I know this because she was offended her doctor mentioned her BMI. “She’s just a kid!” That is her excuse. But this kid also eats ZERO vegetables. She has play dates over here and will literally eat everyone’s leftover food and laughs about it. Kid has been conditioned to say “I have a high metabolism, that’s why I can eat so much!” I offer veggies and ranch, and/or grapes, apples and cheese for a snack and she wants in the pantry to find an unhealthy snack because those are gross. She gets upset when I say no. It’s just……..no.
I just don’t think it’s anybody’s business. Worry about yourself. And don’t fall off that horse. It’s going to be a long way down.
Delete^^ Says the person on a forum meant for literally worrying about other peoples problems. Hence the comments.
DeleteMYOB...ok, so you CAN'T rationalize it is what you're basically saying. Also, what fuckin horse? I am far from a perfect parent, difference between me and you is I don't automatically get defensive about my parenting methods just bc the truth hurts.
DeleteOk buddy
DeleteSorrynotsorry cautiously hit on alysse being out of work for a shoulder issue for 6 months and now claims she’s hurt again. Certainly a social worker can do something at work regardless of her shoulder or whatever. But nope, headed out again. Can you imagine being her boss?
ReplyDeleteBut she’s black so it would be DiScRiMiNaTiOn to hold her to any standards or rulez
DeleteAlysse’s taking months of leave and no one seems to notice makes me wonder how many bhbers are on some sort of disability. I joined a birth board Facebook group years ago and there were definitely moms in it who were on their 4th kid or so but they stayed at home and their husbands were on disability. Unbelievable
ReplyDeleteMaybe they do notice but don’t feel like pointing it out or arguing with her about it. because that’s where I’m at
DeleteThere are a lot of people on disability who don’t really need it. I was out for a couple of months with both babies but I don’t understand six months for a shoulder and now more time from some doctor when she could be doing paperwork or something. If they’re not paying her, they have a temp or something to fill her job? Maybe she’s not valuable enough and they don’t notice her absence. This is another thing I’ll just add to my dislike of alysse pile
DeleteNothing surprises me anymore with Alysse. I ignore her 99.9999999% of the time.
DeleteLike they did NOT change her aunt’s death date for her 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
DeleteRight? She claimed to have this cush wfh job that let her do all her household chores while on the phone but she can't work with a bum shoulder? Sounds like bullshit.
DeleteI think Alysse has a drinking problem. Her posting patterns and the frantic feel of some of her posts are indicative of an issue. I think that's why so many rl people support her and help her out, cuz they know she drinks and are afraid for her little girl.
DeleteShe said she gets drunk and high before she has sex with some dude. So maybe he’s on his way and she’s blitzed
DeleteUghhh the 1st grade thread. I can’t stand kmarinello’s comments but she called the ACT vicious. Which stabbing another child in the eye with a just sharpened pencil fucking IS.
ReplyDeleteSooo ... kanye wore a "white lives matter" shirt. Can we call him unhinged now, or is that still racist?
ReplyDeleteKanye is in his own alternate reality world.
DeleteNo he's just mentally ill, his poor daughter Chicago "who's going to be a problem" i feel so bad for his kids as whole as they'll all be blasted on social media when they don't submit to his whim.
DeleteKanye is a POS who won’t get help for his mental illness, even though he could afford to have a psychiatrist follow him around 24/7 if he wanted to, or stay at some of the best facilities that could help him. He sucks as a father. Damn. If you won’t do it for yourself do it for your kids sake.
DeleteLol @ the circle jerk thread. Bitches love throwing out old timers names to look cool or some shit. I don't get it. And fucking Planes thinking she's so clever and hilarious. Bitch please.
ReplyDeletePlanes is so desperate for attention. I wanted to comment “no. Nobody has missed you.”
DeletePeople don’t do circle jerk threads anymore. The old cunt squad did that, so they could all congratulate each other on how amazing they were. Every once in awhile they test the waters with some stupid thread, like Mahone did with the one about the wedding. Who cares about the wedding of someone half the people don’t know or care about, who was kicked off BHB anyway? Then she did another thread later, and got a frosty reception as well. Sayonara bitches!
DeleteHey blogger, do you keep spelling hypocrite that way to give a hint about your identity? Search function shows a handful of posters spelling it that way too.
ReplyDeleteOmg. Are you serious? 😂😂🤦♀️ I’m sure the blogger couldn’t give one shit if anyone knows who they are. You really searched how people on bhb spell hypocrite? Hahahaha.
DeleteYeah i searched for it the way the blogger spells it. Thought it might be an easter egg. 🤷♀️ Ok, then blogger who are you?
Deletelol wut? nooo!! autocorrect has learned from me to be really really bad at spelling and im too lazy to fix it. i imagine only a factory reset will fix this shit lol
Deleteinteresting that you searched bhb for it tho.
and no reveal for you! i dont ask who you are cus i dont want to know. lets keep it that way, ok?
This is such a strange post 😂😂
DeleteThe blogger says quite a few words that aren’t common. BHB has a good search function. Maybe she’s already been figured out, but respecting her wishes to remain anonymous. Until she pisses the wrong person off. 😘
DeleteOoh Planes says tho all the time, maybe she’s the blogger after all!
Delete/s
No you look for the ONE account that says ALL of the words. 😘😘😘 it’s there… 😘😘😘
Deleteyo! hold on now. i already told yall theres nothing to figure out. i wiped my old account and have never posted with my new one. dont go looking for words and shit, i dont want some innocent person being accused or harrassed or some shit just cus i mis spell a bunch of words. seriously.
DeleteEvery account you’ve ever targeted on here is innocent Blogger. Is it a crime in posting on a forum with views that don’t align with yours? So, you can’t now pretend you have morals. There are no morals here.
DeleteI missed this so much, why was the blog shutdown in the first place?
DeleteFor fucks sake, geriatricmom999 needs to just divorce her husband already and stop bringing up his past sex addiction every time she posts. She will weaponise the fact he didn’t tell her he was addicted to porn or he relapsed forever. She should just leave him so he can live a healthy recovered life without a such a nasty codependent asshole trying to sabotage him. She can stop fucking posting paragraphs about her mother too.
ReplyDeleteI liked smallpotatoes comment on the dog thread. NintendoMom kept that thing after like a day of “trying everything” lmao
ReplyDeleteWell heyyyy give her a break! She couldn’t get *ANY* Facebook strangers to drive her to the vet! So clearly, she gets keep the dog now! 🙄
DeleteExcuse y’all, the dog kept her!! Give her a break!! 🤓🤓
DeleteWhy couldn’t she Uber to a vet like she did all her “cOviD tRiAL” appointments?
DeleteBecause hey, free dog. LOL
Deletei agree w GawdKaren’s response about the victim shaming comments on wedding post. “You done here?” lolol girl we all know the answer to that
ReplyDeleteGawdKaren’s greying out will begin in 3…2…1…
DeleteYikes!
DeleteAnd you people thought she was getting special treatment. There is no loyalty on BHB. Bitch eat bitch world on there.
ReplyDeleteFuck loyalty, it's women holding other women accountable for perpetuating rape culture. Men should fucking try it some time. Bravo planes!
DeleteWtf are you even talking about? Bitch doubled down and no one said shit. The only person trying to hold karen accountable is xplanes, and even she is being strangely gentle.
DeleteU know what they say, U want somethin done, U do it urself. So go run the bitch off the board.
DeleteYikes just read that digital blackface thread. What is schist's new sn? Disappointed in tinkerham and vegmama
ReplyDeleteDid puncass ever address it either?
DeleteTinker and Vegmama apologized. That was it I think. Schists new name is ThisleDo.
Delete""Every account you’ve ever targeted on here is innocent Blogger. Is it a crime in posting on a forum with views that don’t align with yours? So, you can’t now pretend you have morals. There are no morals here.""
ReplyDeletelets start with your first sentence: hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah
ok, second sentence: nope. lots of people have posted opinions that are very different from mine and it dont bother me.
last one: i have never pretended to be moralistic. i have never pretended that what i do isnt shitty. i have no illusions about this shit. i know too well who i am and what kind of person this makes me. i just dont care.
what i do care about is some innocent person being punished for shit they didnt do. ive seen how fast bhbers can turn from casual conversation to blood thirsty witch hunt over a misunderstanding/miscommunication.
think of me as you will, just dont rouse a pitchfork mob cus of a few misspelled words.