ok, new post cus the comment thing is glitching, lets hope its ok in a new post.
sdef06 thread is so off putting. ops 10 yo child "came out" to her and op quickly runs out to get her "parent of a gay child" badge and cant wait to expose him to shit he wont even understand cus hes a little 10 year old kid . op is being super weird and inappropriate. on one hand she says crushes dont mean anything and her kids are not encouraged to have them at 10, but she also didnt waste a second to rush and label her kid gay. if my 10yo came to me and told me they were gay/bi/pan/queer, i would first of all be very curious where they learned those words, you know, cus 10 yo child . and of course anyone that questions op is hOmOpHoBiC lol. i cant believe this has to be said again, but kids dont (or should not) have a sexuality. theyre kids. a crush has zero to do with sexual orientation. if a kid says theyre gay or bi or whatever, i would think that at best, he has been exposed to inappropriate content, at worst, hes being groomed and/or abused. also, you wok...
Where is Prev’s mamma??
ReplyDeleteI'm reading more of prevprev's old posts on DT and yikes!! She argued **hard** against incest being criminalized 😨😨😨
ReplyDelete🤢
DeleteBarf is right. With all this new info coming to light about her she is looking more and more like a really, really fucked up person.
DeleteI will be honest, I think prev went too far. Like there is no coming back from what she said. I am not into the whole woke shit but there is a time and place, and she should have not said anything. I am white but I know when to stfu!
Deleteits not about being woke, its about respect. if youre invited into someones home the least you can do is show a little respect for their rules and/or cultural traditions.
Deleteprevs tantrum is exactly why non white people dont want white friends, cus most of us cant be bothered to be respectful of cultures different from ours.
And she thinks kids should be allowed to buy sex toys 😬
DeleteSome people just don’t know how to apologize. She’s questionable and unstable at best.
ReplyDeleteHer “mom” being silent though…like, wouldn’t you come to her defense or something? She must have been so preoccupied with being Prev that she forgot to log into her mommy’s account.
I bet mom comments in 5,4,3,2…….
To be fair, I don't think you should defend your kid just because they're your kid. I get it's hard to be impartial as a parent, but I'd very much respect a mom who tells their adult child to zip it when they are in the wrong.
DeleteGod damnit, the food humble brag post got deleted. What did I miss??
ReplyDeleteMissed it too! Probably got lit up like a firework.
DeleteWhat was the humble brag about? Why'd I actually have to work at work today? 😩
DeleteSo the poster was humble bragging about how much money her husband made (high high six figures) and that he would complain about her buying organic milk that comes in a glass bottle. Was dumb. She kept reiterating the fact he made awesome money and that she gets to stay home and not worry about grocery bills so what’s his problem blah blah blah.
DeletePSA TO PREV….JUST WALK AWAY. ANYTHING YOU SAY WILL BE HELD AGAINST YOU. MAY AS WELL MAKE A NEW SCREEN NAME NOW.
ReplyDeleteThat’s right. Take your flogging prev.
ReplyDeleteAccording to that old thread her mother thinks they need to be together and knows everything about them. BS! No mother would want their daughter to marry a guy on disability who won’t sleep with her, ever, while her impressionable grandson lives with them.
I’m waiting for cinder to just reply to all of prev’s comments “racist” and nothing else. You know it’s coming
DeleteShe would deserve it.
DeleteAny screenshots or summary of what went down with Prev? The shoes tread is sooo long...
ReplyDeleteAlso, I'm a bit surprised that something went down between her and the others as I thought they were friends. Especially about something as dumb as someone making *their own* house shoes free...
Is it just a proxy fight for something that happened before? Did Prev became their BEC because of something she said in a different thread, or vice-versa?
I think the gist of it is prev got defensive because she has a disability and says she wouldn’t be able to remove her shoes in someone’s house. Seems she felt she was speaking for all disabled people but ignored the intersectionality of people in Asian countries for example who are both Asian and disabled. Then she started fighting back and lumped poc people together as “they” or “you all” (or something). Anyway. There was a pile on and she finally left the thread to think about what had been said. I admit I only started in the middle and rabbitted from somewhere around the initial call out.
Deleteshe doubled and tripled down that the asian custom of taking your shoes off before entering a home is ableist cus her footsies hurt when she goes barefoot. she went on a tirade on how shes disabled 😒, she doesnt have to explain her medical issues (after blasting them to thousands of people on bbc lol), and how she would just leave if she was asked to remove her shoes. all pretty funny considering that 1) it was explained to her many times that asian hosts would very graciously not make it a big deal if she chose to keep her shoes on. and 2) she has visited 0 asian households.
DeleteSo I missed her saying people who ask that you take your shoes off are ableist even if they willingly accommodate people with disabilities. That’s ridiculous.
Deleteoh, she got super butthurt at "allowances" and "accommodations", she thinks hosts asking to remove shoes should just not happen, ever, no matter the cultural background.
DeleteHa!
DeleteThat's really silly. I managed to read a good part of that thread while I was in a Uber... My take is that it's a perfect case of doubling-down gone wrong. People (including myself) get stubborn on BHB, not sure what it is. As an argument goes longer, people start arguing about minor points or extreme examples and start making bad faith arguments just to be right. And I'm not surprised that -isms start showing when people are all on their feelings and less careful about what they're saying. Also, I think some people are clever enough to give you all the rope the rope you need to hang yourself, which is not hard because you can't grow up in this world and not be bigoted 36 ways to Sunday. Not saying that's what happened with Prev though, as I haven't read it all yet.
DeleteYou sound like an American. I don't mean your english, but some of your slang on many of your comments. Are you still in your home country or did you immigrate to the US at a young age? I know you're tired of being doubted but you didn't sound like this on bhb.
DeleteYesss lolol it’s extra hilarious because she has no shortage of comments about how she NEVER goes to other people’s homes (except her mom) and NEVER has people over. Bish this is not a thing that you’ll ever need to worry about feeling “offended” by 🤣
DeleteI'll take it as a compliment.
DeleteI immigrated for real 6 years ago but before that I studied in the US on and off for a few years in my early 20s. I'm pretty good at learning languages in general, and reading is my main hobby and I basically only read on English these days. Also, I worked as a bilingual writer for a little while.
I have subpart prononciation skills and a thick accent though, but obviously you can't tell from my writing.
About not sounding like this on BHB, I think I spoke the same but had a lot more typos? I have ADHD and my writing is awful when I don't triple check it. I've been a bit self-conscious about it since I noticed some unreadable messages I'd written on Slack at work, so I do spend quite a while trying to make sure casual messages I write are readable now. But also, I find responding to several people pilling up on me super overwhelming, so I'm sure some of my comments on BHB read like shit. Not gonna go back and check though.
I think you’re right on about prev digging in, getting stubborn and making bad faith arguments on that thread. She even admitted that she doesn’t even go to other people’s houses FFS.
DeleteHer white woman tears were ridiculous too and I hope BHB doesn’t let her forget it.
About the poster that would not believe that kids switch to indoor shoes in Japan... How weird to get hung up on that. I know some people get very little exposure to other cultures, but if you're commenting on BHB you clearly have access to the internet... Why not take 3 seconds to ask Google instead of being like "no way" when you are clearly so ignorant about other cultures?
ReplyDeleteThe stupidest part about the posters that couldn’t believe kids take their outside shoes off at school is that it is done in thousand of schools in Canada. You don’t even have to look to some far away Asian country. Morons.
DeleteDidn’t anyone watch Mr. Rogers growing up? He changed his shoes at the beginning of every episode!
DeleteThe shoe thread is fucking stupid. I think I lost brain cells reading through that shit. Why is Poker Faced always a hateful, nasty bitch on every thread?
ReplyDeletePer Poker on the dumb as fuck shoe thread:
ReplyDelete"I admire the author's dedication though! Maintaining a whole ass blog to call commenters on an anonymous forum bad names requires a lot of free time and dedication."
As if spending all day every day rapid fire posting on a bullshit mommy board so you can flex your wokeness isn't the same fucking thing. 🙄 Dumbfuck
i saw that too lmao i dont spend nearly enough time on this. i mean i was like 4 hours late to the shoe thread. but sure poker, go off about my "dedication" after you spent like 5 hours arguing about shoes lol
DeleteI don't spend a lot of time on this blog or BHB. I go on in the morning briefly, and at night, again for a few minutes. BHB is like a Soap Opera, you can miss a week but still know what's going on.
DeleteLMFAO at cinder blocking prev. For someone who pretends to be Betty Bad ass on Bhb she's a pussy ass bitch LOL
ReplyDeleteHas Gawdkaren really been gone for 2 months? Wow time flies. Anyway, for anyone who missed it: she told a rape victim that if she had used better judgment she wouldn't have gotten raped. She should never live that down.
ReplyDeletePrev's admission that she became racist when she got angry reminds me of when Liam Neeson admitted he wanted to kill any black man he saw after his friend was raped by one. Like being racist was just a natural reaction to having big feelings.
ReplyDeletePrev’s whole situation gets worse the more I learn. Mostly wrt the DH. And leaving her kid in school to get bullied after already saying she enrolled him in a homeschool program. Oh yeah and she can’t afford the therapies he needs but ELEVEN fuckin cats!!
ReplyDeleteNow I want to know about the black thumb emoji for her mom that pp posted on the last post too 🤡🤡
Still reading the shoes thread, but I guess I don't understand the people who keep on being disappointed when people show their racism. If you think all white people are more or less racist, why is it surprising when a white person shows their racism? Or does the disappointment happen when they don't immediately acknowledge that they said or did something racist?
ReplyDeleteHonestly, my experience as a WOC is that everyone is racist, including other minorities. Maybe it's sad, but I'm never really surprised when someone who's not black ends up saying something racist against black people. That includes friends, "family", people who I consider to be "good people", other ethnic minorities, etc. I care a lot more about whether they can reflect and learn when their racism is point it out to them.
I agree overall, I think here it was the quadrupling down combined with the fact that Prev has tried so hard to seem like an outspoken ally for a long time. She was aalllll over the May 2020 posts when the board imploded and has tons of comments telling people to examine their own biases, or listen when someone tells them they’re wrong, etc…
DeleteI think she’s like that with everything though which is why I don’t care for her. Like stop with all the judgy harsh comments telling *others* they need to examine their relationships, or “put their kids first” or whatever else when her own situation is a dumpster fire resulting in a confused anxiety-ridden kid who’ll need lifelong therapy to undo the years of chaos.
She’s done the whole “I’ll learn and do better”/“I can admit when I’m wrong” thing many times already, prob why ppl are just done with her now.
DeleteI ended up skipping to the end of the thread, and "wow" is all I can say.
DeleteJesus prev needs to worry about her own fucking family and not trying to show how oppressed she is or how she can solve the world’s problems
DeleteHas prev grayed out yet? 😂 Or is she still digging her hole?
ReplyDeleteWhat happened to the post about wanting to throw out the Nativity Scene rather than use adult words to say you don't want it? Last comment I saw was the OP (who is either a troll or just a severe AW) posted a photo of what she claimed was the baby Jesus from the set, except it was completely white with like one black outline? Then, a little later has yet ANOTHER medical question post, and the Nativity Scene one was crying baby.
ReplyDeleteShe deletes many posts lmao
DeleteIs reading a struggle for you? The conversation is about prev. Get a new line, this one is lame.
ReplyDeleteUmm, I'm just being a nosy bitch, I don't give a fuck about the train wreck that is Prev. Although, I have always read her SN as Perv, so that seems to check out.
DeleteI was replying to the pp who says we're obsessed
DeleteYou can talk about the nativity thread, that was a strange one too
Now that comment is gone and I'm replying to no one 😁
DeleteThis shit is glitch, I can see my reply then your reply right after. Weird
DeleteThe nativity set OP deleted the thread when she realized people were telling her she was overreacting and to just communicate with the MIL.
ReplyDeleteRight, but people had been saying that for 2 days, I just wonder what comment finally made her delete the post. That OP has annoyed me more than any new, but not really new, poster in a while. They remind me of that sasoonracoon (or whatever it was) poster from recent past.
DeleteOh that is fucking weird. left here. first post on BHB is from sassoonracoon, where is my damn tin foil hat 👀
DeleteSo do we think Karen made up a dying parent so she could ease back in or nah? She's back to normal posting on other threads.
ReplyDeletewouldnt put it past her, honestly.
DeleteI’m so confused by the love that Xelavee is getting from the woke squad when she was a transphobic ass on the DT. Must be why she wormed her way into the BHB thinking ppl would forget. I haven’t.
ReplyDeleteI remember she posted a thread with a meme of like 7 transwomen and the caption said something like be careful these are really men, and the dumb bitch was like “is this offensive” like whaat?
DeleteThe alphabet ppl went too fuvking far and hurt there cause. Everyone started being a furry non binary trans unicorn that use they them pronouns. People had enough of it.
DeleteBlack women get a pass for being transphobic on the DT. Something about femininity 🤷♀️
DeleteWas she on the thread about the trans swimmer, the one where disney finally got the cold shoulder?
DeleteIf you care to learn, black women are often considered masculine, not feminine. And no one cares. But don't you dare infer that a trans woman isn't the embodiment of femininity or a swarm of Becky's will come after you.
Delete^^^^ yasss. Black women are manly and a man who identifies as a woman is a real woman.
DeleteThere are trans black women and black people too. And black trans women get murdered at a horrible rate. How does hurting another minority helps anyone? You're making excuses for your bigotry just like Prev is making excuses for her racism using her disability.
DeleteExactly! How are you going to claim that shit when trans women of color are murdered left and right just for being trans? Does their blackness not count once they transition?
DeleteYou can't insult trans women and say that black trans women still have your solidarity. You can have an issue with white women who happen to be trans without attacking them for being trans. Same as you can denounce anti-black racism in a non-black POC person without being racist back against their community.
DeleteA bunch of white assholes like prev decided they were suddenly trans for attention.Trans women are not the same as bio women that's all. It's a fact.
ReplyDeleteWTF?
DeleteWtf what? Your outraged that someone said trans women cant be compare to bio women? Get the fuck over yourself. This is why black women dont sit with yall.
DeleteOk asshole. I replied to a four he’s comment, not yours.
DeleteGlitched*
DeleteSo get the fuck over yourself too 🙄
DeleteI wouldn’t have apologized. Those cunts are as racist as they come towards “yt” people.
ReplyDeleteRacist to white people! What?!!!??? AHAHAHHAHHAHHAHHAHHHAAAHAHAHHAHAAAAHHHAAA... *wiping tears*. Wow. Thank you for the laughs this morning. I needed them today.
DeleteYep, you can be a bigoted asshole even if you aren’t white. Crazy, huh? The idea that only white people hold racist ideas is so laughable. SO laughable.
DeleteI suppose you believe misandry is equivalent to misogyny too? 🙄
Delete^^^ agreed.
DeleteAre you trying to argue that people of color cannot and do not hold biases towards other races, Caucasian or otherwise?
DeleteI'm arguing that the biases we have towards white people are VALID, just as "misandry" is a valid response to misogyny. Ffs you just saw how our "ally" prev reacted to being mad at a brown person. Did you already forget? We can't trust y'all.
DeleteSo you’re fine generalizing an entire race to be untrustworthy because of people like prev? Do you think there aren’t any good white people out there? Truly want to know.
DeleteI think there are good white people out there. They're just a rarity, ime. But my definition of "good" may differ from yours. For example, the good ones understand why anti-white sentiment exists and they don't take it personally, bc the shoe doesn't fit them.
DeleteBiases and racism aren’t the same for bipoc. Everyone has biases. But racism is an entire system of power that spans centuries - one that white people benefit from, not suffer under.
DeleteWhen a black person is what you consider racist, you just get hurt feelings. When white people are racist, people often end up oppressed, injured or dead. It just isn’t the same.
Being white on BHB is fucking exhausting. Having to suck up to Planes and Cinder unless you want to be labeled a racist and run off the board. If you don’t want to be in a chat thread then it’s boring as fuck.
DeleteCan you explain how they where racist against Prev, exactly?
DeleteI’m not talking about Prev. I never mentioned her. I didn’t really read the shoe thread. I’m speaking in general terms. If a white person posts on the football player thread we’re racist, if we don’t, we’re racist, if we post on the rapper thread, we’re racist, if we don’t, we’re racist. I just want to say, yes, we’re all racist, can I stop walking on eggshells now? Can I have a lighthearted conversation now without everything turning in to a race debate? I’m not even an extreme person, I’ll respect your pronouns. I’m not an asshole in any threads. It just takes a lot of constant sucking up to planes and cinder in order not to be labeled racist.
Deleteracism against white people doesnt exist. oppressors do not become victims of the racist systems they create and uphold. misandry isnt real either, for that matter.
Deletenon white people can be biased, but can you blame them? a white woman just called lots of cultures ableist cus she doesnt want to take her shoes off! like literally that was her whole deal.
the thing about "allies" like prev is that theyre there and got got your back as long ad its safe and comfortable for them, but as soon as one tiny little thing goes sideways or not to their liking its everyone for themselves and let my racist flag fly.
I do think everyone likes to gang up on whoever they can on BHB and that it's ultra effective when the person they bash has shown signs of being racist, ableist, bigot, etc. which everyone will at some point because humans are shitty like that (and some are obviously just 100% hateful racists, bigots, etc.). That's still not racism against white people though
Delete""So you’re fine generalizing an entire race to be untrustworthy because of people like prev? Do you think there aren’t any good white people out there? Truly want to know.""
Deletehave we, as white women (i assume) shown that we can be trusted? ffs! look at what happened with prev! she acted like a strong ally and then she was asked to hypothetically take her shoes off. like thats all it took.
i dont care for generalizing either, but can you blame them? truth hurts (when it applies to you)
agree with you finance, 100%. its the bhb effect. tiny misstep=dogpile, dogpile, dogpile! harrass! run off!
Deletei bet that irl theyre not nearly and vocal around these issues. which brings up the fact that all those people dogpiling and bashing prev are strong activists as long as its safe and comfortable for *them*, meaning anonymous online forums and mommy boards.
oh, and btw, no one said youre racist for posting on the injured football player thread. its performative. im sure lots of white people do care but you cant deny the performative benefit.
Delete"I’m not talking about Prev. I never mentioned her. I didn’t really read the shoe thread. I’m speaking in general terms. If a white person"
DeleteFound your shoe!
Prev went gray
ReplyDeleteNot surprised. I don't see how one comes back from "I was racist on purpose". Her apology was awful and hurtful because of what it said about her behavior on the thread.
DeleteI still feel for her for the awful abuse she got here in the past, and I think it might be good for her to not have to deal with that. But for fixing the purposeful the racism thing, though? I've got nothing.
Shocking. Did her “mom” go gray as well?
DeleteI called the gray out for prev. 🏆
ReplyDeleteWe all know she’s too invested here to stay grey. Probs gonna come back with a new sn.
DeletePrev’s probably already got a new account and reading.
ReplyDeleteHell, she prob already had a sleeper acct. she’s been around bbc long enough to know how shit goes
Deleteif she participated in old blind debates shes got a sleeper or 2 lol
DeleteBlack trans woman have our solidarity. White trans women are still white and yall basic white bishes are a grate example of why we don't stand with white women. Look at this blog ehere every single woc poster been called disgusting names.
ReplyDeleteOh stop. Cinder and planes can be insufferable but so were Laurie and prev. It’s not racist or ableist or trans/homophobic or even misogynist to say so
DeleteLetssee alysse, poker, money and boogie are called names too....hmmm basically all poc because there angry and hateful rite
DeleteBut *why* do you find them insufferable? It's bc they shine a light on the microaggressions that permeate bhb and not in a kind way, not in a teaching moment way. So yeah, that's racist.
DeleteI think when anyone seems to be on all day everyday and comes off as a know it all, that makes them insufferable. I don’t have negative feelings toward anyone on the board. I do think planes, cinder, Laurie and prev and that non congeniality poster were just too much. Full of themselves maybe. I like some of the other posters you mentioned. But I don’t speak for everyone here. Maybe the blogger removes a lot of overtly “ist” posts before I see them too.
DeleteMy issue with some of these posters is that I feel like there's a lot of hypocrisy.
DeleteI understand that my way of handling racism doesn't work for everyone, and if BHB collectively thinks that running off everyone who messes up is the way to go, great. But I don't believe that they hold themselves and their friends to the same standards when they mess up. I also think that's why some of the trolls go brownfishing. They think that pretending to be a WOC and never disagreeing with those they see as being the in-crowd as the way in. And it doesn't matter what they actually think because they're not there to be genuine, so of course they have no reason to ever disagree on anything. So they pretend and say all the right things, and in return they a free pass to be an asshole when someone's being piled on, which is what trolls enjoy. And of course, if risk free because we already decided that you get a pass for that on BHB, as long as you have a good enough reason. Seriously, how many of the brownfishers been people who've disagreed with them? I haven't been there that long, but within my times, they've always seemed the be the people that join in with them.
That's how I found myself arguing about my experience as a black immigrant with Gracie and having to defend my blackness over and over again. But I don't think they see it. Or, if I'm honest, I think they don't really care because the pile ons and the punishing is more important or more fun to them.
Black trans women have your solidarity but y’all still are cool with Xelavee a known transphobe lolz.
DeleteWho the fuck are you to tell black women who to support? Stay in yalls lane plz.
DeleteLmao at gracie defending finance 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that's why they laughed at you finance!!!!!!!
DeleteHm, what? That's the opposite. Gracie was trying to explain why I was wrong to feel that way because she was an "immigrant WOC" herself.
Delete""But I don't believe that they hold themselves and their friends to the same standards when they mess up.""
Deleteso true. lamatriarca was agreeing with prev and wannabuysomeyarn and all the others making a fuss about taking off their shoes and ableism and generally being a cunt assuming op has debilitating anxiety and control issues, but shes hispanic and "in" with them so no one said shit.
and agree about the brownfishers. last time oscarwetnwild was found out as a long time troll they were piling on someone, screeching about racism and their "struggles" as a queer indigenous woman. same with molly, kicking up a fuss about being a silenced black woman and both trolls were neither.
as for your very last line, i would say that the pile ons *are* their fun. and in that regard theyre exactly the same as the old squad.
Oh ffs finance, this tired shit again? Really? Get some help, forreal. No one "ran" you off. You chose to leave. Same as prev. She chose to leave instead of being held accountable for her shitty words/actions. No one said get tf off bhb and don't come back or else. The victim mentality is real here. Then you wonder why I say what I say about you when all you do is prove it yourself.
Delete-planes
so if prev had chosen to stay you wouldve never brought up her shitty comments again? can you ever truly choose to live and let live?
DeleteIt's kind of ridiculous to act like prev was ever going to be anything but followed around called racist. There's nothing she could say or do that would change that. Being "held accountable" is just that, being followed around and called a racist forever. Are we surprised people don't want to do that?
DeletePlane, I made a thread about an awkward issue with my neighbor and had to argue with someone about whether or not I had thought about calling the cops because I must be a secret cop lover based on the fact she decided I must love cops. You know people play dirty on BHB. Or do you actually think Cinder for example would not 100% have you back if you messed up some?
DeleteI don't think y'all were wrong in the thread with Prev. I think people were actually pretty patient with her compared to the usual, especially in light of her apology. I just don't think you hold everyone to the same standards.
Idk what I would've done if prev had stayed and now we'll never know. What I do know is that I already was annoyed with her comments before she even said that racist bs and the bs apology and even before that thread, so it was only a matter of time before I said something to her, racist bs aside.
DeleteAnd even if she stayed and I told her something, so what? Dusty's still there and gets support from the group. Karen's still there in all her shittyness interacting with people. People give them passes all the time. The way I see it, if you're gonna be bold enough to say some stupid shit, then have the balls to stick around and face the consequences. Otherwise your nothing but a punk ass bitch and everything people say about you is true.
I was going to say something in that shoe thread about other cultures and religions having no shoes in houses rules and they were being insensitive and it’s not albeist, but when I saw Lamat agreeing with them I just said forget it. I didn’t want to deal with a pile on. Someone else was gutsy enough to say something though so, good for them.
DeleteAlso this "can you ever truly choose to live and let live?" Is bullshit bc cinder said she blocked prev and people here had a fit calling her names for doing that. So exactly how is anyone supposed to handle shit? If we block them and don't say nothing we're pussy bitches, if we tell them shit we're cunts. So make up your minds. It's ridiculous.
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And I'm not addressing finance bc my name is not Plane 😤
Delete""Dusty's still there and gets support from the group. Karen's still there in all her shittyness interacting with people. ""
Deletedusty and karen are big enough assholes that they dont give a shit about being harrassed anytime they post, much less attempt even a shitty apology. but youre lying when you say yall dont run people off cus you do. not everyone is as huge of an ass like dusty and karen, most would rather just grey out that put up with the harrassment, and you know this, you count on it.
and i dont agree with the shit about cinder. everyone has the right to use bbc features as they like.
also, pretty shitty of you to make that jab at finances typo, and you know why.
Can't tell if you're being serious or not, but sorry about that. I actually wrote Planes first and then I changed it to Plane because I thought I got it wrong.
DeletePeople are going to have different opinions on shit. That's allowed outside of the woke team. Some people are going to call someone a pussy for doing something and (many) others a giant cunt with nothing better to do for the opposite.
DeleteOne person making one comment is not "people having a fit". Who's being hyperbolic now? LOL
DeleteGo away planes
DeleteHow am I running people off? Why is that on me, or anyone else and not on the people being shitty/not wanting to be there? Youre blaming us for others' shitty actions. Like I don't make prev or dusty be racist so how is it my fault if they don't participate? That's not fair at all and it takes away from them being shitty/racist and simplifies this whole thing into some sort of mean girl gang up when it's not that. No one can make anyone "run off" and internet board.
DeleteAnd about the name thing, yes I was serious, no, it wasn't a shitty jab. That's not my name and I don't like it plain and simple, and it wasn't a typo. So for whatever reason it was you thought it was fucked up, it wasn't
Also LaMa being Hispanic has nothing to do with nothing, why even bring that up? It's shitty of you and others to assume that just bc there's other poc on the board that we all somehow stick together and talk or all have each other's back.
I literally couldn't tell if you were serious or not. I still can't remember whether my original BBC SN was Financewannabee or Financewanabee and which one of the two is a typo, so that tells you how much I pay attention to SNs. But as I said, sorry I got yours wrong.
Delete""Also LaMa being Hispanic has nothing to do with nothing, why even bring that up? It's shitty of you and others to assume that just bc there's other poc on the board that we all somehow stick together and talk or all have each other's back""
Deletelol you ridiculous bitch! yall talk about being on discord and shit and think people dont notice? lmao gtfoh
Calm the fuck down Gabriela.
DeleteYou're the ridiculous one. Like I said it's shitty to assume we all talk just bc we're poc. The last time I even talked to LaMa off board was when the whole Mx thing went down. Not all poc are together in some secret group chat like you may think. And again her being Hispanic has nothing to do with it other than it shows your ass and how you and others here think.
DeleteThread???
DeleteThey don’t tho. They nit pick straight up benign shot and make it about race… the reason people hate them is because they take it too far. And that’s not to say the other self righteous cunts like prev and Laurie are not as bad because they’re definitely worse
DeleteWhat benign shit? Please elaborate. And don't say taco costume, we've been over that a million times.
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Bitch you invented the victim mentality. Finance made many valid points up above and you addressed none. That’s why u and ur cronies are fucking hated cunts
DeleteIt’s been explained to you multiple time your obtuse whore
DeleteNo she didn't. She just brought up old shit about what happened, again, essentially blamed me and other woc for getting trolled, saying if we had been nicer we wouldn't have been trolled as if we deserved it , and shes upset that some people are friends on the board and off. Like none of that was some grand insightful thoughts that needed a response.
Delete"Obtuse whore"- 3/10. 2 points for vocab, 1 point for not saying cunt. Keep up the good work 👍
DeleteNumpty twatwaffle
DeleteSince when does cinder have a kid old enough to write? How does no one ever call these trolls out on their obvious lies! 🙄🤦🏼♀️
ReplyDeletei think her oldest is close to 8. thats not too young to be able to write.
DeleteHuh? My kids could write like that by 5, some earlier. Not trollish even a little
DeleteShe's said her kids are not old enough for school yet. But yeah some kids can write their names before entering preschool but can't skip. But I haven't read the thread yet so I don't know if she's claiming the kid is writing stories, not just their name.
DeleteMy friend's newly 2 yr old can write blippi. I shit you not.
DeleteNah hers are little but it looks like it was just a single word, definitely not unusual.
DeleteThe blippi comment is cute and I wish any of my kids were still that little sometimes. A rare sometimes but still 😂
I thought cinder was taking a break… one can still dream I guess
DeleteWho's the next ally to fall? Kailela seems genuine to me. Is she white?
ReplyDeleteI don’t think she’s white but who knows
DeleteKeilaela uses the white emojis with dark hair —> 🤦🏻♀️ So I think she’s white but many of her comments make it really ambiguous
Delete^^ not to say she’s not a good ally, I just used to wonder too
DeleteShe is white with a biracial son
DeleteWhite with biracial child. I thought she was a poc for years on the DT.
DeleteI thought she said petty clearly that she was white when she was commenting about her husband's culture on the show thread.
Delete*pretty
DeleteWrong poster. That was kafka.
DeleteWho’s the anon asking about the six other baby mamas 😂
ReplyDeleteIs there such a thing as a special snowflake anymore or is everyone on the planet now treating their kids like a SS and expect teachers to baby them too? BHB of yesteryear would have told the OP who wants the teacher to not call on her 4th grader (who isn’t paying attention) that she’s being an SS and her kid needs to suffer the natural consequences of not paying attention. Now BHB wants her to tell the teacher not to call on her and of course offering up diagnoses. I hate this shit so much.
ReplyDeleteugh, i rolled my eyes so fuckin hard at that thread. how are kids supposed to learn if teachers cant even expect them to pay attention and ask them questions? its fuckin ridiculous.
DeleteI'm a teacher with mostly IEP kids. I call on them when they aren't paying attention because 1. I need them to participate 2. To pull them back from day dreaming or not paying attention 3. I need to know if they know the material
DeleteI would laugh at a parent who requested I not call on their child.
Uh sure, if you want a failing grade in class participation. My anxiety kids have no problem knowing I will call on them.
What an SS?
DeleteIGuessing special snowflake
DeleteAn SS is a special snowflake, in this case a kid with possible adhd. Many would be inclined to feel compassion towards a child with a learning impediment. Not here though. Kid needs to toughen up and if she's called stupid and laughed at by other kids bc of her disability, well, that's life.
DeleteShe hasn’t even been evaluated for anything yet. In a class of 20 there are probably 3 enthusiastic kids that want to be called on but the other 17 are hoping they don’t, that is how it’s always been.
DeleteBut her teacher saw markers for adhd. So while not a formal diagnosis, it sounds like mom isn't just pulling excuses out of her ass for why her kid shouldn't be put in a position to be mocked.
DeleteAwww cute!! Planes is still trying to stay relevant. What’s wrong honey? Is Prev getting too much attention here?
ReplyDeleteLOL Clearly
DeleteMy name has came up a bunch of times without me even being here, ask yourself who's keeping who relevant before you start kissing my ass again.
DeleteYou'd think by now you'd be used to seeing me here but yet you get so star struck every time I comment you feel the need to make yourself known. But continue, go cuss me out and tell me I'm a cunt if it makes you feel better about yourself.
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Honey, you’ve been here way more times than you’ve been mentioned get over yourself
DeletePlanes checks all the boxes for a true narcissist, obsessed with her self but clearly there’s a huge deficit of self-esteem
DeleteGo parent your blessings pinche buchona lol
DeleteAntes muerta que sencilla 💃💃💅💅
DeleteAlso you do realize it's almost midnight (or later) right? My kids have been asleep for hours 💀 but go off.
Delete"Go parent your blessings pinche buchona lol"
DeleteLol are you the gringa married to a Latino who swears up and down he's not attracted to us? Psst, don't check his porn history.
Also, we've been laughing at you on bhb in case you missed it.
DeleteFinance, I just want to say that I appreciate you and enjoy reading your posts on here. You handle things in a really admirable way and you are able to hold your own and make your point without being an asshole. I hope you continue to stick around. You make a lot of good points and I find muse agreeing with you a lot.
ReplyDelete*myself, not muse. Stupid autocorrect lol
DeleteThank you, I really appreciate that!
DeleteFinance you're one of the good ones!
DeleteToo bad she couldn't handle bhb, here is easy
ReplyDeleteI left BHB because I was told I was the issue after my neighbor thread went awry. I do like connecting with people online but I don't see the point in staying somewhere if I'm the issue. I have no problem talking with people who think differently than me, but yeah, I don't actually enjoy getting into internet fights that devolve into personal attacks. I don't like being in the receiving end of those and I definitely do not want to find myself on the giving hand either, so I'd rather remove myself from these kind of situations. If that makes me a pussy that's fine by me.
DeleteI saw that thread in real time. The cunt brigade hanged up on you. And NO, it’s not an issue of lumping POC together. There are literally 5 rabid bitches that get their panties in a twist about anything monotonous like shoes, taco costumes, RSVPs, or being called out for pretending to be each other on a “who’s the troll” thread. Cinder,planes,poker, money and polv… notice those are the only names mentioned amongst a well known sea is POV including myself… they’re just perpetual victims and straight up bitches
DeleteYou're a poc? Why didn't you have finance's back then?
DeleteHere is easy because there are a bunch of coward pussy anons agreeing with her lmao.
ReplyDeleteWhat is Prevs moms name on BHB? Is she grey?
ReplyDeletekrazedkat
DeleteSo is krazedkat grey now? She didn’t post at all during prev’s flameout so I don’t know where to look for her
DeleteHer mom isn’t gray… yet anyway
DeleteAnother is it ok if I eat this post. At first I was like, why do people always ask this? Why take the risk? Just toss it. But then I realized that's privileged of me to say. I'm not rich but I'm not food insecure either. People were being assholes on that thread. Surprised no one said anything.
ReplyDelete"Cinder,planes,poker, money and polv… notice those are the only names mentioned amongst a well known sea is POV including myself"
ReplyDeleteYou forgot about alysse. She gets dragged here. As did boogie when she was a regular, Lamat too. So who are these poc who are tolerated? Momma, percy? The ones who've advocated for extending grace to racists? Gmafb.
Alyssa is just a crazy troll. She isn’t part of the rapid five.
DeleteGod I feel bad for planes kids. With the amount of time she spends on bhb, here TikTok, and lord knows where else, they are surely neglected. Doesn’t she have 4+
ReplyDeleteThey're not babies, they don't need looking after 24/7. You feel bad for her kids, but not the kids of the people here constantly mocking parents who advocate for their kids, like the adhd mom above?
DeleteWhy are the comments glitching???
ReplyDeleteThere is no such thing as trans. You cannot change or opt out of your sex. This period in time will be looked back in horror similar to the lobotomy scandal.
ReplyDeleteIdk. There are some trans men on tiktok that I'd prefer over most bio men. 🥵
DeleteWhy are you so insistent about shit that literally has nothing to do with you? Trans people transitioning has NOTHING to do with you.
DeleteTrans people have existed forever. Read a history book once in awhile. Just because there are more now doesn't mean it's a epidemic. Left handedness also increased when people weren't forced to write with their right hand. Is that an epidemic too?
Oh I know!! How about when helmets were invented the number of head injuries went up so helmets cause head injuries right? No. It's because they died before.
Trans people exist. They aren't hurting anyone. Cope.
^^ preach. The OTT hate is so old.
DeleteYou should have seen the comments here when the Lia Thomas thread was going. It was disgusting. I feel bad for the kids of commenters here. Racist transphobes raising mini racist transphobes.
DeleteRight? Talk about looking to be offended. You could just live and let live and be SO much happier. Do you get off on being angry?
DeleteIt's insecurity. Women have been facing a shit ton of misogyny lately and so feminists banded together to make it seem like menstruation and birth are special and magical and immutable facts so they can retain some "special" place in their imaginations.
DeleteWomen have no real power and so the only power they have is to gatekeep womanhood.
There are also issues of transmisogyny and fetishism, but that's separate from some sad housewife squawking about how the "transes will end us all" on the internet.
Every dog thread ehoneybee has made has gone to shit because she’s a dumbass.
ReplyDeleteNurseLissa is talking about her child’s molestation again on discord, this time posting a pic of her underage nephew after telling everyone he was a rapist. I hope she isn’t making that stuff up.
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